I had same problem.But now it has solved

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Firstly, start BlueSoleil software, search for your phone then go to Tools->Configuration->Quick Connect and see which port is assigned to your phone. If not, assign a port. In "My services"->Properties,make sure that "serial Port A" and "serial port B" are enabled.
Now shutdown BlueSoleil Software and also Bluetooth service. Start N6600 PC Suite. On the taskbar, right click on the mRouter icon and select "properties".Select all ports which are virtually created by Bluesoleil Installation program. Now start Bluesoleil Software and search for your phone. Then right click on your phone icon and press "Refresh Services". Now again start N6600 PC Suite and wait till you get green-blue mRouter icon(30 seconds) in the taskbar.If not, go to BlueSoleil software and right click on the phone icon and select connect->Bluetooth Serial port service. It should work here. Otherwise logoff and try this procedure again. :roll:
My IVT BlueSoleil version is 1.4.9.5
By the way, windows xp was not able to detect my Bluetooth Adapter automatically

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