No need to apologize and all, chill dude
Let me address your issues,
1) G0 Quads run much much cooler than B3
2) That Zalman 9700 is a massive cooler with heatpipes and a bigger fan,compare it with stock cooler, you will get the answer for reduced temperatures.
3) chipset temperature being more than CPU is a common thing, current chipsets are more complex, they are passively cooled whereas CPU is actively cooled and newer generation cpus have thermal throttling technologies to save power and reduce temps. Even new GPUs do that, not sure if chipsets are capable of doing that.
4) Quads are power hungry but at stock things are pretty ok, bump the voltage and clock it higher and see what happens
Interesting thing to note,
Even under DICE, i fill the pot ~ till half with pelets, and forget about it when benching with Dual Cores.
Situation changes drastically with Quads, When 3DMark is running and Quad is at around 4.4GHz, it eats up the pelets like there is no tomorrow

To put things more simply,
DICE needed for Dual Core 45nm to complete 10 Super Pi run @ 5.2GHz = Max 1-1.5 Kg
DICE needed for Quad Core 65nm to complete 2-3 3DMark runs @ 4.4GHz = 4-5 Kg
This is only when they are clocked higher, things are under control at stock
Hope this helps.