Is this right to hit back a Women by man, if she hits him

[gary4gar]

I was reading this topic, where a Girl slap a boy for no reason on a TV show. the boy slapped back and then whole crowd around decided to become a Hero and started beating poor boy. all of them just trying to make a impression infront of girl

some people have a view that guys should NOT geting physical fight with any gal whatever circumstances there may be.

Some believe, they have a right to hit back under extreme circumstances; if girl hit them first for reasons that can't be justified.

Some think, in complete gender equity and say that they would do the give same treatment to Girls as given to boys. No special treatment or soft corner for girls.


So whats your views on physical abuse.
Whats is the gentleman's way to deal with such situations without being a sexist.

If a girl hits him, what should he do
Option 1: Say nothing and walk off as if he has no self respect.
Option 2:Hit back but then sound cruel and insensitive.

[desiibond]

IMHO, not letting any girl hit you is a much better way

[Chintu08]

http://www.jokeroo.com/funnyvideos/s...ing_women.html

[Faun]

defense is the best attack but if the woman is fast and cunning then do not retaliate if the law in your country is inclined more towards ladies.

Else smack that b!tch up (k thats a track from The Prodigy)

[gary4gar]

Well, we are not talking about how to avoid it, rather what to do when a Women Hits a man.

Should he retaliate or just smile and walk away

[ancientrites]

i think it is right to hit back at women and i appreciate the boy slapped her back that could teach her lesson in future.

[Faun]

Originally Posted by gary4gar

Well, we are not talking about how to avoid it, rather what to do when a Women Hits a man.

Should he retaliate or just smile and walk away

If you hit back, you will probably need a lawyer the next time before you slap any other gal.

Its a fact. A gal can screw you big time if she wishes so. But yeah if you are a damn SOB and don't care for tomorrow then do retaliate provided she is b!tchy too. As I already said

[kumarmohit]

If the girl starts it without the guy actually being responsible, the girl deserves being hit back. Just becoz she is a girl and the other person a guy does not give her a right to hit the guy.

[Ethan_Hunt]

IMHO if slapped with no apparent reason or if you're not at fault then hit back.Why should one take it lying down?

Who knows what would come next after a slap, a kick in the nuts may be?

[axxo]

Option 2. Hit & Run

[iinfi]

kicking wud be a good option

[gary4gar]

Most of you say, man has a right to hit back but...

What if the Girl files a Case of rape,sexual harassment or assault against you?

Under section 498 of Indian Penal Code,
women can testify herself and you can be accused and found guilty without any other witness.

which means if she says "he sexually assaulted me" the court will believe.
only your presence at scene of crime is required. and you are proved Guilty for a offense you never did.(

with a Crimal case against you, you would be denied jobs,Visa and everything else important to you..

now for whole life you would repend why i slapped her

[Faun]

Originally Posted by gary4gar

Under section 498 of Indian Penal Code,
women can testify herself and you can be accused and found guilty without any other witness.

Exactly what I tried to say. Ladies are risky business.

[goobimama]

Let's just say I've slapped a girl or two in my life (in public). No I'm not a woman beater, but if women want equal rights, I'll give them equal rights. Not that I have a problem with agreeing to equal rights for women, they just as well deserve it. I'm just not cool with unequal equal-rights.

[Faun]

^^and then what if she plays wicked tricks, in public doesn't mean that everyone will voluntarily back you.

Maybe a very bad onset to changing owns life then ! More than that the blemish on family is intolerable.

Am just assuming and extrapolating now, so nevermind if things don't go this worse...lolz. Which I hope never happen in reality to anyone.

I have seen people have a tendency to be considerate to women. Current laws are an unanimous evidence for that.

[MetalheadGautham]

I am always for equal rights for all human beings.
If a girl can hit a guy, the reverse should also be possible.
But no, the govt of india wants to call a guy hitting a girl as sexual harassment and if a girl hits a guy, its just a simple slap, thats all.

I am sick of living in a country where the most privilaged person is a girl who is a muslim SC by birth. What happened to equality ?

[NucleusKore]

Originally Posted by gary4gar

Well, we are not talking about how to avoid it, rather what to do when a Women Hits a man.

Should he retaliate or just smile and walk away

Originally Posted by T159

If you hit back, you will probably need a lawyer the next time before you slap any other gal.

Originally Posted by kumarmohit

If the girl starts it without the guy actually being responsible, the girl deserves being hit back. Just becoz she is a girl and the other person a guy does not give her a right to hit the guy.

Originally Posted by MetalheadGautham

I am always for equal rights for all human beings.
If a girl can hit a guy, the reverse should also be possible.

Now let's be practical, what would I do, grin and bear it, because the law is loaded against males as pointed in the quotes above. What would I have liked to do, return it with interest.

Now there is a workaround
1. Grin and bear it
2. Find out the whereabouts of the girl who hit you, where she works, stays, how she travels to work, etc.
3. Leave the getting even with her to your girlfriend and her friends

[pc_game_lover2004]

when in today's world when women are = to men as they think they r so they should be slapped back as if any man would have....
but i personally think that all boys have a soft-corner for girls...
and they do think before slapping a girl....

[Faun]

^^there is a limit b/w girlyness and *****yness though. Times are changed now.

[ray|raven]

Any girl who can hit a guy deserves to be hit back IMO.
Given the guy didnt mess with her in the first place.

[tarey_g]

Originally Posted by gary4gar

Under section 498 of Indian Penal Code,
women can testify herself and you can be accused and found guilty without any other witness.

Exactly, End of Discussion.

I am male and belong to general quota, this is what gives me best of both worlds.

[Zangetsu]

it depends on the situation...
IMO...if u r guilty 4 the slap..then accept it no matter whoever it is....

if u think honestly dat its not @ all ur fault then u have full rights 2 offend no matter
whoever it is dats wat we call innocense...

so all option options doesn't matter 2 me...i go by above rule....

& the girl must have found something really mischievous dats y she hit him..& the guy
found the slap to be an insult dats y the return...he got angry in other words...otherwise he wud have beated her totally....if it was a man who initiated this...

[kumarmohit]

Originally Posted by gary4gar

Under section 498 of Indian Penal Code,
women can testify herself and you can be accused and found guilty without any other witness.

Laws mein confuse ho gaya. Section 498 Dowry harassment ka law hai, agar ladki se teri shaadi nahi hui to you can shove 498 wherever you want. Same is the case with the Domestic harassment law.

Problem hai societal aur judicial bias. People, Media and Judiciary will never favour a guy even if he is correct. We not only need gender neutral laws, we need proper gender sensitization programs in this country.

[rhitwick]

Those who r supporting the act of hitting back, try it urself and c the consequences
U'll b SCREWED, big screwed...........woh bolte hai na "Jor ka jhatka dhire se laga"

I was thinking about this topic for a long time............and I found that we men r really helpless in this case and are also crippled by law.

Again its not an everyday case that a man is physically abused by a woman........(if u leave those exceptional cases where d girl hits u wen u propose). So.......

I think my answers are not clear as I myself is not clear about it

[hellknight]

yeah.. I would kick her back.. self defense.. If someone hits me, I'll hit back.. male or female or whatever.. doesn't matters... wiase bhi.. sarkaar bolti hai na.. Ladka-Ladki ek barabar..

[rhitwick]

Originally Posted by hellknight

yeah.. I would kick her back.. self defense.. If someone hits me, I'll hit back.. male or female or whatever.. doesn't matters... wiase bhi.. sarkaar bolti hai na.. Ladka-Ladki ek barabar..

If some how u r required to prove that u were provoked for that incident, u won't b able to do so............none will stand by u nor even support u..........u know our society..

[tarey_g]

Originally Posted by hellknight

yeah.. I would kick her back.. self defense.. If someone hits me, I'll hit back.. male or female or whatever.. doesn't matters... wiase bhi.. sarkaar bolti hai na.. Ladka-Ladki ek barabar..

Sarkaar to ye bhi bolti hai ki har hindustani ek barabar , phir bhi alag alag treat karti hai .

[gxsaurav]

If a gal beats me like this, I won't hit her back. Physical assaults cures itself in some time (bruises etc). I will instead play with her mind & make her pay for it mentally.

[IronManForever]

Well, in our patriarchal society, the law has a softer corner for women. So one should be careful.

But lets face it, there is always a feeling of courtship in many men. And I am a bit old fashioned, Id better smile and walk away. BUT If Im in a life threatening situation then, of course, Id retaliate.

[rhitwick]

What IronMan has posted, my mindset matches wid it...........but one thing is still disturbing me......that is self respect...........

Its been a long time I've stopped being numb when someone hits me verbally or physically..........then gary raises the question d person is a woman??

I'm still confused.............my ideology still says forgive and forget.......but.......i don't know yaar i'm still confused........