Sex before marriage....

[sam9s]

Sex before marriage......well......with todays nxt genx going with rocket pace....what do you say.........on ethical, physical, emotional and personal grounds.........approve or disapprove.

[Gigacore]

i think its discussed earlier

[dOm1naTOr]

But there was no dedicated thread, i think.

[sam9s]

Originally Posted by Gigacore

i think its discussed earlier

well I couldnt find any with couple of searches......neeway.......we might as well have a thread......

[Gigacore]

okie.. my vote goes to 2

[debsuvra]

I also do not support it. So no.2 is the right one for me.

[sam9s]

mmmm might as well include the reason, age if its okay with you people.....................

[Hitboxx]

Screw ethics, screw culture, screw religion....if I and her wants to have sex, we will have sex, we're both mature adults, so Yes.

[Who]

Let me ask one thing who the hell created the rule not to have sex before marriage ? humans did, as i am a human i have the power to disapprove it !

[amol48]

^^ Yea I agree with you ....

Moreover, I believe that if you are having it with someone you really love and would get into relation with, then it's ok.. Otherwise I don't approve it.. So right now my vote goes for Option 1: APPROVE

[amitava82]

Sex is a process & part of life. What it has to do with marriage?

[life31]

I dont mind.

May be something like a practice match before the actual tournament

[New]

My vote goes to 2...But, some times it's ok

[gxsaurav]

I don't mind, See...Sex is a beautiful thing & in today's world even the teenagers of 17 years want to have sex as soon as possible. Having a GF/BF is like a fashion these days & gals/guys are desprate to have one so that they can brag "look guys, I have a GF, U don't", so obviously desparation is from both sides which leads to sex.

In 2002 when I was in school, Sex in teenagers was rare in Lucknow, now in 2008 it is common. Our younger brother & sisters are doing it & there is nothing we can do to stop them....

The only thing we can do is to inform them about safe sex & that unsafe sex before marriage or a certain age can & will lead to problems. Let them do it, if people think they are mature enough to have sex before marriage then let them deal with the problems themselves, they are mature enough for dealing with problems too.

Sex before marriage should be there, but with a partner you can trust that he/she will not go & brag about it to his/her friends & within the limits of safety.

A very good concept these days is of Sex buddies, or more like one night stands between office co-workers & college classmates. Have sex but with no strings attached, just pure fun between the guy & gal.

[ax3]

@sam9s ...... bt whots ur choice ?

mine is 2 ......

[Ecko]

Can cause HIV(not AIDS) even if u use C-Protection

[solomon_paulraj]

guys, i was the one who started the previous thread, but it was removed.

Originally Posted by Hitboxx

Screw ethics, screw culture, screw religion....if I and her wants to have sex, we will have sex, we're both mature adults, so Yes.

yeah! i knew that from from your avatar..

[harryneopotter]

Originally Posted by Hitboxx

if I and her wants to have sex, we will have sex, we're both mature adults, so Yes.

Originally Posted by smit

Let me ask one thing who the hell created the rule not to have sex before marriage ? humans did, as i am a human i have the power to disapprove it !

Originally Posted by amol48

I believe that if you are having it with someone you really love and would get into relation with, then it's ok.

Originally Posted by amitava82

Sex is a process & part of life. What it has to do with marriage?

+1...............

[Tech_Wiz]

I Disapprove it

[phreak0ut]

Ok, so many dissapprovals. If you have a gf and you are going really steady for a long time and she makes the move, would you still say no!? I doubt guys saying no to sex is very doubtful

[Sukhdeep Singh]

Disapprove

[napster007]

i can't say............true it has got nothing to do with marriage but when you decide to go for it...you have to be sure that she is the one. What i dissaprove is going around screwing everyone

[iNFiNiTE]

^^ +1

[apacheman]

well, u can enjoy sex in the true sense when you really love the one u're having with. ofcourse, sex creates intimacy between the partners, so u certainly cant have it 'with no strings attached'. dat'll be more like animal sex.
n u can't just bang anyone u feel like even if they agree, just to satisfy your lust. its like encouraging n creating whores n prosts, free ones though. bah!

[sam9s]

Originally Posted by gx_saurav

I don't mind, See...Sex is a beautiful thing & in today's world even the teenagers of 17 years want to have sex as soon as possible.

Sex before marriage should be there, but with a partner you can trust that he/she will not go & brag about it to his/her friends & within the limits of safety.

A very good concept these days is of Sex buddies, or more like one night stands between office co-workers & college classmates. Have sex but with no strings attached, just pure fun between the guy & gal.

Good points.....and I agree sex IS beautifull, BUT ONLY if its done with the pure, devine feeling called love which you should have towards your partner, irrespective of weather you are married or not. I feel sex without the touch of love is eating egg without salt.......remember.....

"You can have sex without loving a person, but you can'nt love a person without having sex"

Linda Goodman says, when you finally decide to make your bodies meet there should be a proper chemistry before you finally take the plundge. You should know each others heat and soul and then let your bodies should unite. If this path is right you will get the most beautifull experience you can ever have. But if its done vice versa i.e. bodies first and then your heart and soul , it wont work atleast not in the perfect sense.

Sex before marriage should be there, but with a partner you can trust that he/she will not go & brag about it to his/her friends & within the limits of safety.

This thing has become a rarity today, trust/commitment these days depends
upon the scenario which is ever changing and so does the trust and commitment. Just look at the MMS flood floating around, and 80% of them I'd say has a geniune girl, who thinks she is giving herself to the one she loves.

Originally Posted by New

My vote goes to 2...But, some times it's ok

you disapprove, but SOMETIMES its okyyy....what do mean by that.....double standerds

[amol48]

I think it depends on the person you are with, rather than your current state of relationship(I mean like 1 month relationship or in relationship since 5 years...) It's all about chemistry between your relationship, psychology of your mind (and biology of your body I guess )

[pushkaraj]

i disapprove

[speedyguy]

approve...but play safe....

@sam9s: agree....only issue we have 2day is introduction to sequels of dps rk puram kaand...it has set a trend today....couples love each other truly...they have it finally...n other day a blue movie on them is posted on debonairblog site.....have it surely but only if and IF ur damn 100% sure abt truthfulness n character of ur partner...(esp for galz)....

Enjoy~!

[gaurav_indian]

ghor kalyug hai

[gauravakaasid]

approve of it. all the points have been covered.