Is looking Handsome A MUST for todays World?

[naveen_reloaded]

Title says all..


wht do u think guys??

Brain or Beauty???

[enticer86]

Brain, what guys want

Luks, what gals want

[naveen_reloaded]

Now coperate also wants luks .. wht say??

[enticer86]

Well.. it all depends then...

[desiibond]

Neither looks nor brain. It's purse that matters.

[ThinkFree]

Brain

[gxsaurav]

One thing I learned from Ashish (Suave_guy) of this forum few years back is that looks as well as brain matters. Without brain, u will fail in today's competitive world, & if U don't have a personality & charm....no one will pay attention to u.

The only thing u have in every situation with u is your persoanlity, verbal skills & brain. It's very important to learn how one can use all this.

Brain & looks both matter. You need to have a charming personality, a good attitude & a beautiful mind today to be successful.

Oh! & you really need to know how to talk to & make gals comfortable, they are everywhere these days, so if u can win them...most of your problems are solved.

[Batistabomb]

pure and helping heart

and iam sure this thread is going to run some pages

[naveen_reloaded]

just like you ... Gx..

charmy....

[gxsaurav]

Originally Posted by naveen_reloaded

just like you ... Gx..

charmy....

Abe that's not me, that Prof. Utonium....this is me.

[naveen_reloaded]

thats clever....

so u ahve brain and beauty...

digit`s idol... LOL...

no offence..

[gxsaurav]

Originally Posted by naveen_reloaded

thats clever....

so u ahve brain and beauty...

digit`s idol... LOL...

no offence..

Now, I should not brag about me....but yes U r absolutely right...lolz...

The only idol I have is my dad, sisters & my Ex Boss

[x3060]

looks , only up to a certain age , thats all . brain -until you get a job . personality -all through your life . seriously , looks dont matter much ,brain does , it only comes in marriage , but that too , not much , you just need avg looks , thats all ,cause marrying a beautiful lady is not important , but marrying a good girl is .

ultimately , love wins over look , brain wins over instincts (at times )and personality gives you good life . which is greater than all of the above

[naveen_reloaded]

well said x3060

[gxsaurav]

Originally Posted by x3060

looks , only up to a certain age , thats all . brain -until you get a job . personality -all through your life . seriously , looks dont matter much ,brain does , it only comes in marriage , but that too , not much , you just need avg looks , thats all ,cause marrying a beautiful lady is not important , but marrying a good girl is .

No, wrong. Love is an illusion between those with a GF & those without one. Someone who has 10 GFs will never believe in love till his marriage, while those without a GF or not confident enough with gals will say "I m looking for my real love so i m not making GFs"

Here is teh thing, if u have brains to succedd in reel life of computers, studies...exams etc, then why not use the brain in real life to enhance your personality.

ultimately , love wins over look , brain wins over instincts (at times )and personality gives you good life . which is greater than all of the above

Brain is what gives u instincts.

[Batistabomb]

Originally Posted by x3060

looks , only up to a certain age , thats all . brain -until you get a job . personality -all through your life . seriously , looks dont matter much ,brain does , it only comes in marriage , but that too , not much , you just need avg looks , thats all ,cause marrying a beautiful lady is not important , but marrying a good girl is .

ultimately , love wins over look , brain wins over instincts (at times )and personality gives you good life . which is greater than all of the above

very well said

[x3060]

getting a girl friend is not a big thing in life mate . . but building a stable life platform for your kids is .

[naveen_reloaded]

ya but after building such a platform.. its the girl who is going to blow up if she is not good.. LOL

[x3060]

its like this in life , early in school you value your friends and marks more , then comes "the student of the teacher"factor ,mid school , college ."the girl"factor comes , then you search for jobs , then you will see that your parents have raised you so nicely , that you want to raise your kids far better than them , and all of a sudden , the look factor diminishes and personality and maturity takes place in life .

then you will understand that the biggest treasure in life is not those 1000 gf that you flirted around but your loving wife and family.
now thats why , some say , choose wisely when you chose a girl . it can rain death up on your life or it can bring heaven to your living

[gxsaurav]

Originally Posted by x3060

getting a girl friend is not a big thing in life mate . . but building a stable life platform for your kids is .

Ya, & I think for kids u need a wife...for which u either need a GF or a gal atleast ...

For me, looks are a part of over all personality. When U go somewhere, or meet someone for the first time, it's all your looks & personality which they see. Your dressing style, verbal communication skills etc

now thats why , some say , choose wisely when you chose a girl . it can rain death up on your life or it can bring heaven to your living

Something i learned from my last experienced . That's why one of my next year resolution is to make as many friend gals as possible like i do today, but not get emotional or in love with anyone of them because it's not worth it. Don't get emotional in a relationship, if a gal likes u she will like u whether u r her BF or not, if she doesn't then....move on.

[x3060]

boy , you are making a fundamental mistake .
to build a succesful married life , you need not flirt with girls . you just need to be a FRIEND with them. else , think about it ,our parents ,living together for 20-25 years together would have been the greatest flirters of the entire history .

[gxsaurav]

Originally Posted by x3060

to build a succesful married life , you need not flirt with girls . you just need to be a FRIEND with them. .

Ya, this is what I learned this year myself.

Just be friends with gals & don't expect anything from them.

Do your thing, you own life comes first. They are good enough to manage there own life.

Don't get emotional for any gal, other then your wife. Care for your friend gals as a friend. They don't need u always....

& tell them straight away on 2nd or 3rd meeting "I m not interested in making u my GirlFriend, but only good friends cos right now even as friends we will be doing the same thing, caring about each other, helping each other etc, is that ok with u"

Although if the gal wants to get cozy with me, I have no problem

[faraaz]

Looks get you through the door...brains keep you in the door...unfair for the uggos but fact of life...

[gxsaurav]

Originally Posted by faraaz

Looks get you through the door...brains keep you in the door...unfair for the uggos but fact of life...

Right said....but brain keeps u inside the room...what would u do standing at the door only//

[fun2sh]

aap logon ne meri aankhen khol di.aa main bhi girlfriend banaunga. but koi milti hi nahi.

[gxsaurav]

Originally Posted by fun2sh

aap logon ne meri aankhen khol di.aa main bhi girlfriend banaunga. but koi milti hi nahi.

How old r u? Remembar, No GF till 12th & Multiple good friend gals during graduation or similar time....

[naveen_reloaded]

Originally Posted by gx_saurav

Right said....but brain keeps u inside the room...what would u do standing at the door only//

ROFL ...

[The_Devil_Himself]

Being handsome does help you initially, no doubt about it(this is more so in case of girls though, we boys still need to have brains).But in the end, its what you are that matters.Not all can look like filmi heroes.

[x3060]

and you think heroes are handsome . . man , there are tons of makeups being poured.

[fun2sh]

@gx
i m just 5year old. oh not physically but mentally

wel i m currently in 3rd sem of my BE n yet i hav found no1.some good gals r taken.some good lookin girls r arrogant n foolish n thinks they r only the smart 1s, so i dont speak to them. while other good girls r tooooooooooo shy.