where r we going......?? is it gud or bad...??

pr.itdude · 20-06-2009, 02:55 PM

In todays newspaper...i just read this......

"buddies on bed"
y dont go for someone else when u can satisfy or fulfill ur needs with ur friends.......its all abt need today....!!

Read the complete article:
http://epaper.timesofindia.com/Defau...Mode=HTML&GZ=T

(collected this link in really very hurry.........if u have better link provide it)

Is this gud or bad.......?? Do u really want to have a "sex buddy"......??

(think deeply...it somehow related to us....we all......!!!)

Liverpool_fan · 21-06-2009, 01:17 AM

I wonder what an unsuspecting future husband/wife would end up with. A non-virgin bride/groom...that's sick...
It's OK if these people don't bring a bad name to their families and do not cheat unsuspecting future/present husband, wives. That is keep to themselves by staying unmarried for life or there is a mutual consent with their future/present life partners.
Otherwise it's just plain disgusting.

pr.itdude · 21-06-2009, 03:58 AM

is it mere a fictious article.........???

it can be.......these newspapers.........hmmhh........!!!

Cool Joe · 21-06-2009, 07:19 AM

Typical TOI sh1t.

thul · 21-06-2009, 07:59 AM

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Originally Posted by Liverpool_fan

I wonder what an unsuspecting future husband/wife would end up with. A non-virgin bride/groom...that's sick...

Sick ? You can try hymen restoration surgery, just in case

Its really difficult to find virgin now. I wish you best of luck.

thul · 21-06-2009, 08:03 AM

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Originally Posted by Cool Joe

Typical TOI sh1t.

Ture

mehra.rakesh · 22-06-2009, 01:06 PM

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Originally Posted by Liverpool_fan

I wonder what an unsuspecting future husband/wife would end up with. A non-virgin bride/groom...that's sick...
It's OK if these people don't bring a bad name to their families and do not cheat unsuspecting future/present husband, wives. That is keep to themselves by staying unmarried for life or there is a mutual consent with their future/present life partners.
Otherwise it's just plain disgusting.

If a chick wants to have s*x with u... will u say NO , i rather doubt it !!!! why should this be any different for girls ??? i mean what the heck ... is there a clause that you shouldn't have had sex with anyone ........frankly thats what i find sick ......

Coming back to the topic .... well its their life to live and their life to ruin .... if you dont want a sex buddy ,,well dont !!!!!!

chesss · 22-06-2009, 03:12 PM

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If a chick wants to have s*x with u... will u say NO , i rather doubt it !!!! why should this be any different for girls ???

Because they are different . Its a scientific fact.
Consider this recent experiment at harvard. volunteer girls approached random guys offering a one-night-stand . almost all guys said yes. Note: some guys did say no . In the same experiment volunteer guys approached random girls offering to sleep with them. Not even a single women said yes.
women are far more selective about their mates than males are.

gxsaurav · 22-06-2009, 07:08 PM

What's the big deal in having a sex buddy (from opposite sex)? Sex is a human requirement & everyone does it? Its actually better to do it this way as U can have sex with someone U know, u can trust but not worry abt falling in love with... it will not be animal sex, as the feeling of care & affection will be thr due to friendship/

comp@ddict · 22-06-2009, 08:12 PM

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In todays newspaper...i just read this......

"buddies on bed"

There was a similar article a few months ago.

it enrages me to the poor and saddening fact that in the coming 5 years, there will be a 90% chance that u'll get a minimum 10 times f*ked up girl even though u r vi***** and cimmited

**Krow** · 22-06-2009, 11:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Cool Joe

Typical TOI sh1t.

+10.

harryneopotter · 22-06-2009, 11:45 PM

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Originally Posted by gxsaurav

What's the big deal in having a sex buddy (from opposite sex)? Sex is a human requirement & everyone does it? Its actually better to do it this way as U can have sex with someone U know, u can trust but not worry abt falling in love with... it will not be animal sex, as the feeling of care & affection will be thr due to friendship/

u still alive on the forum ??? I think this was the perfect topic to pull u out of ur deep caverns of solitude

pr.itdude · 23-06-2009, 01:00 AM

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Originally Posted by gxsaurav

What's the big deal in having a sex buddy (from opposite sex)? Sex is a human requirement & everyone does it? Its actually better to do it this way as U can have sex with someone U know, u can trust but not worry abt falling in love with...friendship/

thats what the article says.........its a need......nd its better to have with someone u trust....!!!

But whats friendship then be called......?? Will u not loose interest in ur wife....??

There shud be an active girl in this forum.....who can put her view here........we (man) all have same kind of feelings........!!! Yes, why not....its an opportunity...!!! But what if u know after marriage, that ur wife got f***ed up by her different friends.......!!!

But i seriously think that girls dont really get so easily ready as stated in the article......!!!

comp@ddict · 23-06-2009, 11:50 AM

THe prob is there isn't.^^^^^^^^^

chesss · 23-06-2009, 03:04 PM

hi bhaiya
hi sister,
meet rahul
rahul who? your boyfriend ?
nahi re, my F**k Buddy!!

I am not sure about others, but I won't be comfortable knowing my sisters have **** buddys .

Liverpool_fan · 23-06-2009, 04:05 PM

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Originally Posted by gxsaurav

What's the big deal in having a sex buddy (from opposite sex)? Sex is a human requirement & everyone does it?

I wonder how you will feel if your wife/sister has a *cough* buddy... (don't take this as a personal statement)

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Its actually better to do it this way as U can have sex with someone U know, u can trust but not worry abt falling in love with... it will not be animal sex, as the feeling of care & affection will be thr due to friendship/

This statement is contradictory.

Liverpool_fan · 23-06-2009, 04:09 PM

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Originally Posted by mehra.rakesh

If a chick wants to have s*x with u... will u say NO , i rather doubt it !!!! why should this be any different for girls ??? i mean what the heck ...

It shouldn't be any different for boys than girls.

I think I don't have problem with people doing whatever in their lives. Jut I hate the hypocrisy. The outside show of "sati-savitri"/"Ram" and p0rn star within...

sujoyp · 23-06-2009, 08:13 PM

^^+1

you are right...guys do anything u want in life...get drunk...take ganza..have sex..go to himalaya and become a rishi muni...whatever...

just dont expect anyone else to be of satyug kidof

if u r not virgin y even expect that ur partner should be a virgin too its as simple.
if u have many gfs or wife can have many bfs too....if u cant take it look urself in the mirror 1st

comp@ddict · 23-06-2009, 08:22 PM

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I am not sure about others, but I won't be comfortable knowing my sisters have **** buddys .

I won't be comfortable knowing my biwi had fck buddies 2 years b'fore marriage

In short-This is disgusting

pr.itdude · 23-06-2009, 10:19 PM

hmm..........the topic z getting hotter.......!!!

pr.itdude · 23-06-2009, 10:26 PM

see...the topic has another aspect too.........
no one will be comfortable if ur wife or - - - - - had f**k buddy......!!!
But if u see, today the avg age of getting married is nr around 28......!! (i may b wrong, but thats really in urban india)....where ur early lyf spent in setting u up.....(apne paro pe khada hona

)

but the natural call for the pleasure (samajh gaye na...) is after teenage, say nr around 21-23....... so in that case......u need someone.......

what will u say if ur girl friend (not gf) ask u for being her ****buddy.......u both need to have......!!!! And in reality....ppl make gf only for this purpose........rarely u see true LOVE .......!!! Everything is mere attraction and need.....!!!!

pr.itdude · 23-06-2009, 10:27 PM

but as two sides of coin......the loss u feel by above is, u will lost interest in ur wife......and the maza of first honeymoon......

mehra.rakesh · 25-06-2009, 05:41 PM

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Originally Posted by comp@ddict

I won't be comfortable knowing my biwi had fck buddies 2 years b'fore marriage

In short-This is disgusting

NO offence meant ,,, but can u explain why is that so ????

Neways ,,,, as a personal opinion i really dont care if my gf/wife is doing it with someone atleast not until she gets knocked up .... but if she has like 10 or so fuC buddies then she needs therapy for sex addiction !!!!!!!!!!!!!

If the person gets emotionally involved with the fuc buddy then it truly qualifies as cheating on the realtionship ....

confused · 25-06-2009, 06:50 PM

@compaddict - maybe u should wake up and see the reality, gone are the days when only metro youth used to have s@x when in their teens, nowadays even youth in rural india are experimenting. so its not like the girl ur gonna marry is 100% a virgin.

why does this country have such stupid double standards???
one hand we write kamasutra and painstakingly sculpt even the gods doing it in temples like khajuraho,etc on the otherhand s3x is a such a taboo.

im stuck in engg and hence dont have time(damn), but quite a few of my school classmates who are involved in something less strenuous are already hooked into this stuff.

the term "friends with benefits" is also used, and is a elegant substitute for fcuk buddy.

also see this:http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0800240/

confused · 25-06-2009, 06:55 PM

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Originally Posted by mehra.rakesh

Neways ,,,, as a personal opinion i really dont care if my wife is doing it with someone atleast not until she gets knocked up ....

im sure even people in the west dont have such a viewpoint

this fcuk buddy stuff is acceptable only when neither are OFFICIALLY in relationships with other people.

chesss · 25-06-2009, 08:48 PM

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why does this country have such stupid double standards???
one hand we write kamasutra and painstakingly sculpt even the gods doing it in temples like khajuraho,etc on the otherhand s3x is a such a taboo.

There are no double standards here. Different people are different. Things change. People change .
Just because someone wrote some book ages ago, that doesn't mean we should continue doing that forever. I mean really think about it, we used to practice dowry and sati and child marriage, should we keep practicing them now ?? Now I am not comparing F buddies and sati, I am just pointing out that, that just because something that we as a country practiced ages ago, doesn't make it mandatory for us to continue it.

confused · 25-06-2009, 10:18 PM

^^u have a point.
coz about 100 yrs back, there were a lot of restriction in the west regarding what was polite/impolite for a "lady" to do. now all thats gone to the dogs.

similar thing happening in india now. i wish i was born a generation later.

pr.itdude · 25-06-2009, 10:34 PM

[Offtopic:
^^ u r in engg. nd u r sayng u dnt hv tym. . .c'mon. . .chill yar. . .engg. sabse jyada free n velle hote h. . . .excpt durng xm tym. . .
Otherwise, u r excptnly studious. . . . .!!

nd cud u plz xplain ur siggy. . ."female. . ." it seems there sumthng intrstng. . . .!! ]

confused · 26-06-2009, 12:01 AM

^^hey, engg is much more taxing than say bmm, bcom, flight training, etc. plus currently i have bitten something much more than i can i chew. (was a state board student, now in a college where all of the students are from cbse, so barely surviving as it is) so rest all can wait for 2 yrs atleast. and well some have the exception skills of handling chicks and books, i am not one of them, so gotta accept my limitations.

siggy refers to the "easy" girls one can find in engg colleges (and thereof lack of decent girls too

)......