Need a little help in LOVE(i really need it)

I love this gul in my scul and she is in my standard. I want to propose her and like to live the rest of my life with her. The problems--

1)I hacked her sister's id and than felt guilty abt it and admitted to the gul i love through e-mai.Result=anger
2) Shes a staunch follower of scul rules and as i take all my gadgets to scul, she show me and complained to teachers. I am still doing it and the issues been for a while and its still on. I tend to swear around frequently in english and she didnt like it and came face - to -face with me. I still doing it
3) She had a problem with the self body piercing I did with a rounder on my hand saying "K"(her initiall). I pierced it daily for a month.Now the mark wont go. She is all spooked out because of it!


Can anyone help. I have little means of communication only!

[Faun]

1) No thats a selfish act
2) You can't lure a good gal by material things
3) She must be thinking u r a psycho

Now listen kid, this age is a deciding factor for your career and future, if u dwindle now u wont get a chance to stand up again. Move your direction to studies. Think about that society don't approve losers easily. Its not that simple.

Rahi baat saari jindgai saath bitane ki, toh abhi tak tumne duinya dekhi nahi hai. Theres lot to happen and many things to struck u until u will be able to make mature decision.

[karmanya]

Just reading that, and I already think you're a little wierd... I would seriously suggest you calm down, take a deep breath and remember you're NOT IN A BAD HINDI MOVIE!

[narangz]

1. Bad & a crime.

2. Same as what T159 says.

3. Dude calm down! She'll definitely think you are a psycho.

If you want to impress her, impress her by studying hard, get good marks

You need to take studies more seriously in this age/

hey man i am a topper! I taught my ma'm Office 2003 for HER exams.(ya really) I am a topper, anything more abt marks? And i am not a kiddo! I am soo old. I am not a psycho, that shows how much i lover her!

[iMav]

13 years and he says I am not a kiddo, if that's the case din is a great grand father and we are all uncles

Bache padhai pe dhyaan de. Aisi bahut aayengi aage.

iMav - can u stop calling "Aisi bahut aayengi aage."? Please cant u guys understand? I love her

[iMav]

^^ you need to understand what you are feeling is not love but teenage infatuation.

[Log_net2]

hey man just cool down.If you really love her you should have patience.If you think she is really worth it you tell her once again about your feelings and you gonna wait for her.I am not sugggesting you wait till you won her hearts or 1 year or so.Wait for at least 1 or 2 months.

But i she turn the other way or not worth it so many girls there.This kind of things happened but life will go on.Cheers m8.

[din]

Dear paranj

From your profile, I see you are just 13. and you are telling - "I want to propose her and like to live the rest of my life with her."

Teaching your mom office 2003 or bringing your gadgets to school or piercing your body or being a topper - none of these means you are mature enough to make such a decision in your life. If your point of view is correct, we will see thousands of students who are married going to high schools in India with their kids

So, just like others say - Calm down. Now give importance to study. Time will come when you can select a girl of your choice. stay away from these kinda tricks, be a good boy.

ok guys i had 'nuff. I cant think of leaving her. After all this i cant back away. Either u help me get out or u guys help me get in!

[din]

Paranj, there is nothing like that.

You stop bringing your gadgets (if that is against the rule), stay away from hacking. Stop body piercing and stuff. Be friendly with the girl but do not force her in any way. Give maximum importance to study. And stay as a topper - in all aspects

Good luck.

Hey we cant tok to girls till 10th grade. scul rules. i cant live without gadgets. i have left hacking. i am a topper. she got more marks in maths than me this time though. thats why i am happy I am so sad she did not get more % than me overall. thanks for the support guys. looking forward for more HELP rather suggestions

[iMav]

^^ +1

thanks iMav

[Chirag]

Study. You might just lose your rank.

[aditya.shevade]

Originally Posted by iMav

^^ you need to understand what you are feeling is not love but teenage infatuation.

+1

(I can't believe I am agreeing with iMav.... )

[eggman]

Originally Posted by paranj

Hey we cant tok to girls till 10th grade. scul rules.

ye kaya rule hai? What a stupid and weird rule!!!!!Your school isnt a coed, is it?

[praka123]

^well,many schools even before 12-15 years have that rule.for eg: where I studied.
we had the rules that should not talk to girls from 9th and 10th(1993-94).even we got seperate classrooms at that time adolescence means blindness(sex)

ya a wierd rule and we dont have co-ed. Kill the ****ing *******s of the administration

[iMav]

My +1 was for din's suggestion, you replied while I was typing.

[victor_rambo]

ok........whats you age?

[vandit]

Ur just 13 yrs old and doing stuff like hacking( i doubt u can..) , body piercing, bringing mobiles( i guess thats ur gadget ) to school and talking abt infatuation and such **** ?

Where is this generation going ?

Aaj kal ke bache kitne bigad gaye hai !

Thats , i think, the effect of television on school going kids..

I dont watch television. Common guys mobile is nuthing . PSPs and iPods and PenDrives and Portable HDDs are what i deal in. E61i dosent hurt too. She has seen it all! It aint infatuation. Its love. No lust and there is no dust just love.

[victor_rambo]

Well, I think you should approach her parents directly and 'Uska haath maang le'...I mean thats called 'courage'. Don't sit back like a coward there in front of ur PC!

[din]

Blame the society and families !!

Buying all kinda gadgets to kids of 13 yrs, allowing them to take it to school, allowing them body pierce, not checking what they do with computers, and the school - not allowing boys and girls to interact !!!

Oh the golden days

Where my only gadget was an eraser with the shape of a deer body pierce ? Sure get beaten up at home, then additional beating in school ! Families and school authorities were taking care of us, they knew what we do, we had no problem talking to girls. Till 4th grade, we sat mixed, after that in two sections, but no rule to separate girls and boys.

Reminds me of the movie - Taare Zameen Par - You buy the costliest gifts for them, the best food, the best school, everything best in life. And how many parents really care for their kids ? How many really know what their kids do at school and other places ? How many know what dangers behind gadgets and computers at that age ?

Oh well, life is changing.

[gary4gar]

Don't attempt anything stupid. just be normal with her.talk to her like you talk to other people around.

[din]

@rohan_shenoy

I strongly believe you were joking. Do not tell me you were not

That guy is just 13 and you are asking to show courage and go, meet her parents and tell about marriage ? ? ?

[victor_rambo]

Obviously, I was NOT joking? How can you be so cruel to separate them?

[din]

Yaar, I agree the rule sux. That is one of the reasons he is showing stupid things.

But meeting her parents at the age of 13 and talk about marriage ? (sorry, not good in Hindi, I guees 'Uska haath maang le' - something related to marriage, if not, I am extremely sorry)