My Love story

Cool G5 · 14-01-2008, 03:12 PM

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utsav · 14-01-2008, 03:33 PM

OMG

I know what it feels.i fell in love with my classmate when i was in 5th .i still remember her very nicely .but i never confessed my love to her .she is a frnd in my orkut profile but she never scraps me coz she is very studious.i never told anybody abt her but few of my classmates know that i still love her.god knows how they got to know this!!! but yes never confess ur love becoz it may lead to sadness.i cant say more.sorry guys if i hav spoken more

Lucky_star · 14-01-2008, 03:36 PM

Sad story indeed. Why do people mistake sweet talk and sensitiveness for love?
Anyway, you learned your lesson. Allow a week or two and you will get over her.

din · 14-01-2008, 03:39 PM

@Cool G5

I do not want to fo too personal, but just curious

1. Are you damn sure, its a girl ? ? I mean did you ever met her in real ? Leave the photo / phone calls / yahoo mesenger. You know everything can be done even if its a 'boy' on the other end.

2. do you think the online relation (I do not want to hurt you either, just assuming you never met her) alone is a deciding factor ? I mean you met her in Dec 2007. Now its Jan, thats just one month. Please do not feel bad, but I do not think 1 month is enough for you (that also being just online) to understand her and to propose you.

3. How serious you are in this matter ? I mean what you meant by ILU ? Just wanna make her your GF or you really want to marry her ? Just curious.

I know you are shy (from your post) and may be the reason you opted yahoo messnger instaed of talking directly ?

First I do not think there is any mistake from your side. You were frank, atleast in the messenger, and you told her what you felt. Nothing wrong in that. But it is always nice to talk direct (not even over phone) when you talk matters like this, I mean while proposing etc.

Also, please do not feel bad over this. She might be hving a lot of reasons for saying 'No' to your proposal and I think shes nice because she asked you to continue the friendship. She didn't tell you - Man, I do not love you, good-bye - so think on the positive side. Yes, it is tough to face it, but not impossible. May be take a small break, I mean 1-2 days, relax and then talk to her.

And continue the friendhsip, who knows may be some other day you will meet a beautiful young and cute girl on the street and you both fall in love ?

Be happy, do not sit alone. We are all here with you. Take it easy. Enjoy.

Lucky_star · 14-01-2008, 03:39 PM

And remember,
If you love someone truly, just let her free. If you try to possess her, neither of you will be able to love...

din · 14-01-2008, 03:43 PM

@Lucky_star

It was something like

If you love something, let it free. If it comes back, it is yours. If it is not, it was never yours ?

Who · 14-01-2008, 03:45 PM

not to hurt your feelings but tell you the truth , if i were the girl on the other end i would have told you the same thing , i mean how in the world a girl would like you that too in a month ? the truth is no one trust anybody on the net & you are actually asking for love , sorry for being so direct but open your eyes.

The_Devil_Himself · 14-01-2008, 03:51 PM

BTW whats your age?Infatuations feel great man,I still remember a couple of them back from school time.

SunnyChahal · 14-01-2008, 03:57 PM

sad ending

Par picture abhi baaki hai mere dost

pretend to be a frnd and then after some time(2-3months),ask her the same thing.
Best of luck bro

sai_cool · 14-01-2008, 04:01 PM

take a break .. relax.. and dont feel miserable....

Pathik · 14-01-2008, 04:16 PM

Cooly dont disclose all ur personal stuff here man.
I know how it feels like.
Also how did u fall in love with her even when u hadn't seen her. ??

adi007 · 14-01-2008, 04:18 PM

Have u seen her???..even once
everyone always behave nicely while chatting and in phone conversation..So u can't tell her nature....
Don't be dishearted and remember not to fall in love with a girl whom u have not seen...

Gigacore · 14-01-2008, 04:31 PM

First word = SAD

Second Word = MAD (yeah love is MAD)

Third word = Beware to face her "DAD"..

Anyway it was really bad and sad G5..

Thats why I never believe in girls.. (a.k.a never go behind a girl, let her follow me

)

@ G5, lets wait and see if she can make up her mind or not. Just be chill and happy.

NucleusKore · 14-01-2008, 04:47 PM

Always fall for inner beauty, I do not think you know her well enough.

I have seen one thing, guys do find it HARD to have platonic relationships. I have an equal number of girls and boys in my friends' circle, but its often frowned upon by "the orthodox". Not that I care, but some of those girls had difficulties for a while (from others) because of it. I do not feel our society is ready to accept platonic relationships in the right spirit. When a boy is friendly with a girl and vice-versa it is always given some "colour".

Anyway, put this behind you and move on. And try to have more platonic relationships for longer time frames, say at least a year, so that you get to observe and study the person at least a little. You may get some signals too, then make your move. All the best

utsav · 14-01-2008, 05:01 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Gigacore

never go behind a girl, let her follow me

abey tere ko kaun follow karegi aur apne kismat phodegi ??

ArZuNeOs · 14-01-2008, 05:13 PM

Gaurav...Its nice to see u pour ur feelings to us.....Thank u for that

Girls ...anyone ....They want security in their life just as they lived till now....they might be friendly but always wait for the perfect man...I would say ....be friends with a gal & u will learn a lot....Then choose ur luv

All said Haste makes Waste.....

Treat ur gal as a friend ....till u earn her respects ...then try to understand her .....support her ...treat her as one....only then u will understand them....Then make ur choice....

DigitalDude · 14-01-2008, 05:14 PM

ROFL @ giga hehehe

anyway have you ppl never heard of ATKT

hehehe

vivekrules · 14-01-2008, 05:20 PM

hm... well... mate.. u have done gr8 work.. !
tere me gutz hai !. wo hi theek hai... ! caz. u have tell ur feeling to her..
now itz dependz on her wat she think bout u .. !
but yaar dont wory.. if she said no..
remember 1 thing usse aacha koi aur mil jaye ga ! ..
nd abhi tuno usse dekha nahi nd mila nahi.. how can u say tat u r in love man !.. itz juz a attraction.. !...so juz treat her juz a gud frend

.....
u deserve more den her ! theek hai.. so juz be chill..
nd plz dont listen sad song ( jag sunna sunna lage nd all tat song )..caz it ill hurt u ..
u know me 2 like sumone but dont have enough gutz to tell her !!

.. nyway.. all de best !.... juz leave ur life as usaul..as u was livin..!

a_k_s_h_a_y · 14-01-2008, 05:22 PM

dude relax.. you will be sad only for a few days

esumitkumar · 14-01-2008, 05:41 PM

^^ very nice post kenshin

Gigacore · 14-01-2008, 06:20 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by a_k_s_h_a_y

dude relax.. you will be sad only for a few days

Experience...

Lol.. just for joke, no offense

Faun · 14-01-2008, 06:24 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Kenshin

Got this from a friend

"A woman has a close male friend. This means that he is probably interested in her, which is why he hangs around so much. She sees him strictly as a friend. This always starts out with, you're a great guy, but I don't like you in that way. This is roughly the equivalent for the guy of going to a job interview and the company saying, You have a great resume, you have all the qualifications we are looking for, but we're not going to hire you. We will, however, use your resume as the basis for comparison for all other applicants. But, we're going to hire somebody who is far less qualified and is probably an alcoholic. And if he doesn't work out, we'll hire somebody else, but still not you. In fact, we will never hire you. But we will call you from time to time to complain about the person that we hired."

lol...i hav blogged it back in 2007 and got it while stumbling (bad...bad...time killer)

Pathik · 14-01-2008, 06:27 PM

Arey haa and remember..
Aaj Pooja, kal koi Dooja.

harryneopotter · 14-01-2008, 06:35 PM

Dear gaurav ..... no need to b upset ....... i knw how it feels when it happens like this .....

First of all ....u can say that its LOVE ... i mean "1 month" ..only 1 month chatting on yahoo and 2 phone calls can not decide bout ur significant other (if u r looking for life long commitment) ......and if u want her just to be ur GF ...thn u cant call it LOVE, Can u ? ...

but if u still want her ... then here are some suggestions ...
1. Dnt go away from her .... be more affectionate to her (but rem nt to cross ur limits ) ... be a good friend of her .... win her trust and friendship.
2. Show her that she is and will always be spcl for u ...bt dnt overdo it.
3. Let some time pass (say 2-3 months) as patience is imp.

filhaal to itna hi ..... dnt worry and stay happy ... we are with u

Faun · 14-01-2008, 06:37 PM

its infatuation dude, the rate of liking her is exponential and thats the first symptom of this syndrome.

Love i built gradually over time and not in haste. And yeah always remember love the girl who loves you (atleast more than 100 girls love you in the whole world, only thing is the time u encounter one) and not the girl whom you love and want her to love you.

Chirag · 14-01-2008, 06:49 PM

Same story here.. But the thing is I know her since like May 06.. Thats like almost 2 years.. I told her I like her thought she only took it the frnds way and never had feelings for me.. One day she comes and says "hey i like other guy". God I was so angry on that day, seriously felt like killing her.. abused her, fought with her and much more.. Later told sry and helped her to get that guy.. I thought it would feel good but didnt.. then later she comes and says " hey i went on a date with him and we held our hands together"

.. was the worst day of my life till now.. Anyways trying to overcome those feelings and trying to be her frnd but still I like her damn much.. The only gal I ever felt that way...