mami ke bhai ki beti..

chesss · 23-10-2007, 01:52 PM

Is it ok to 'patao' my mami's brother's daughter?
I have checked, we are not related by blood in anyway.

Its legal ofcourse, but I want to know how will it be looked upon by our families if our families found out about our 'chackar' or my feelings towards her. I know for certain in some families this wld be frownede upon. Ours a is normal middle-class hindu family(love marriages are ok)

I mean we meet at my mami's home, gossip and chat real casually. so I am wondering if our parents look upon us as brother and sister :yikes:!!

To be sure - my pyari is meri mom's brother's wife's brother's daughter.

btw me is totally krazy about her

almighty · 23-10-2007, 01:59 PM

Go ahead
dere is nothing to worry
ur relation is not so close....

azzu · 23-10-2007, 01:59 PM

go for it no WORRIES
lol i cant stop laughing
sorry

Charan · 23-10-2007, 02:00 PM

whats your age? If you really want to marry her then walk up to your parents and tell how you feel. There is no point in waiting in these matters.

almighty · 23-10-2007, 02:05 PM

exactly
tell ur parents it gonna arrange marriage
u need not to worry

iMav · 23-10-2007, 02:05 PM

haan re ... pyaar andha hotta hai

pyaar har rishtey k upar hotta hai

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almighty · 23-10-2007, 02:06 PM

^^^
hey isme rishta kaha se aa gaya

mami ke bhai ki beti
baaaaaaaaaaaba re
bahut dur hai bhai

Charan · 23-10-2007, 02:06 PM

he he we solve any damn problem

ilugd · 23-10-2007, 02:07 PM

people all around me seem to be thinking of marriage. I am sick of it.

Charan · 23-10-2007, 02:10 PM

This is gonna be a very long thread...

iMav · 23-10-2007, 02:11 PM

bas sirf itna dekhna mama aur mami ke bichmein lafda na hojaye

almighty · 23-10-2007, 02:11 PM

Good prediction charan

drgrudge · 23-10-2007, 02:19 PM

Hope something like Srija-Chiranjeevi issue doesn't happen (IMO: love marriages are ok, eloping not so ok, marrying at young age is strict no no; wtf the guy is younger than me, dunno what he does). Got what I meant?

Otherwise your situation seems ok. Go ahead if you're not young.

harryneopotter · 23-10-2007, 02:20 PM

wats ur age buddy chess ????????

chesss · 23-10-2007, 02:21 PM

arre u guys are so fast!! and bored

Thanks a lot!!

Quote:

whats your age? If you really want to marry her then walk up to your parents and tell how you feel. There is no point in waiting in these matters.

I am over twenty.. though marriage ke liye main bacha hoon.

iMav · 23-10-2007, 02:22 PM

^^ arre tension kyon leta hai .... salim aur anarkali ne socha tha kya yeh sab ....

almighty · 23-10-2007, 02:24 PM

yup u r too small kid
but u can continue this relation
and marriage that gal after some yrs
if u like to marriage then otherwise plz dont go ahead
it ll mess ur relation with ur mama's family
so be carefull

chesss · 23-10-2007, 02:24 PM

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Originally Posted by almighty

Go ahead
dere is nothing to worry
ur relation is not so close....

she is my bhai ki behen.. some will say bhai ki behana bhi toh behan hui...

almighty · 23-10-2007, 02:26 PM

bhai ki bahan

how cum
she is ur mami's bhai beti

iMav · 23-10-2007, 02:26 PM

iske mama aur mami ka bhi kuch lafda lag raha mereko

chesss · 23-10-2007, 02:28 PM

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Originally Posted by iMav

^^ arre tension kyon leta hai .... salim aur anarkali ne socha tha kya yeh sab ....

u r right. tension nahi leni chahiye..

I might add, I haven't even talked to her yet. (try kiya tha par..) But she knows,. Don't want her to get into a mess.

almighty · 23-10-2007, 02:28 PM

mama or mami ke beech to lafra hota hi hai

wo sab jante hai

chesss · 23-10-2007, 02:29 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by almighty

bhai ki bahan

how cum
she is ur mami's bhai beti

mami ka beta mera bhai, aur woh uski behan.

almighty · 23-10-2007, 02:31 PM

arrey ye to mamla ek tarfa hai or bahardur av itna pareshan hai
beta tujhe ishq ho gaya
go ahead tera kuch nahi ho sakta
wo kahwat hai na
jab dil lagi ..... wali

abbey mami ka bhai teta mama
or wo hua tera mama sasur

abbey tu jaker mom se clear kar
sab hota hai yaar

drgrudge · 23-10-2007, 02:33 PM

chesss,

IMO guys should not marry b4 26 (ideally 27-28 ). Enjoy life yaar, after marriage too much tension and responsibilities.

If not her, there'll be other chicks (hehe) waiting for you.

Charan · 23-10-2007, 02:34 PM

mami mani bahi beti mami ha chachi , bahu ki beti

could you guys pls use some english so that other humanbeings will also understand and may help in this noble cause

iMav · 23-10-2007, 02:37 PM

abey kya family family khel rahe ho yaar tum log

chesss · 23-10-2007, 02:40 PM

Quote:

IMO guys should not marry b4 26 (ideally 27-28 ). Enjoy life yaar, after marriage too much tension and responsibilities.

Wise worrds..
before her I had decided never to marry. Ekdum confirmed tha. Ab I am confused,
I have kind of decided that I am too young to be even thinking abt marriage an all, just forget about it toally before I grow (up)

Another thing ,when I talk to her, will she be thinking 'marriage'