Love Marriage or Arrange Marriage?

Gigacore · 27-06-2007, 11:44 AM

hi guys n gals what else shall i say. which do you think is rite? i know this waste of time. but this section is here to fight.

For which will you support. and which do you think is good. Started this post in interest with peaceful decisions before getting married.

Goten · 27-06-2007, 11:48 AM

Love marriage.

Chahe ek se pyaar karun ya 2 4 se.

Love luv loveria love love love.

Hatt...Shaadi abhi karni kisko hai bas luv luv luv.

Aaaaaah.

Peace~~~!

prasad_den · 27-06-2007, 11:49 AM

Supporting love marriage... 'coz I'm doing it..!

And seriously man, this is really a waste of time.. The topic is too stale...

rakeshishere · 27-06-2007, 11:50 AM

Thread Reported to Admin and also added to Top 10 useless threads

prasad_den · 27-06-2007, 11:53 AM

^^ Must be the quickest entry into the top 10 list..

gxsaurav · 27-06-2007, 12:00 PM

I would say love marriage. How can you marry someone for your whole life unless u know her.

Arranged marriages are good cos your parents know the best for you. After all, mom is the best in the world however they can't always be right. If arranged marriages were always good then we wouldn't be seeing all those after marriage cases where the husbands exploits wife.

Love Marriage is the way to go, or if you are going for arranged marriage then few months before the marriage let the couple interact with each other, let them meet, talk, understand each other.

( And give the number of the lady to me

)

Gigacore · 27-06-2007, 12:05 PM

i think this thread will be closed soon

prateek_san · 27-06-2007, 12:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Intel_Gigacore

i think this thread will be closed soon

nahh wont see that happening..

Love marriage ................cant spend rest of my whole life without even know person

gxsaurav · 27-06-2007, 12:34 PM

Yup, point. I will spend my life only with a gal who i know from last 4 years.

escape7 · 27-06-2007, 06:41 PM

I'd go for an arranged marraige, as they say u never truly know the person until u marry them. Plus there would be something new in the relationship

Yamaraj · 27-06-2007, 07:47 PM

Love marriage - You get to know the person you're going to spend your life with.
Arranged marriage - Sex comes first; everything else can wait.

azaad_shri75 · 27-06-2007, 08:07 PM

marriage-if properly understood creates heaven here itself otherwise I need not say the opposite--it does not matter whether love or arranged,

as of me marriage is a big humbug..........

iamtheone · 27-06-2007, 09:08 PM

uhmmmmmmmm....errrrr......no marriage??

**kalpik** · 27-06-2007, 09:27 PM

Love marriage.. IF at all i marry

escape7 · 27-06-2007, 10:21 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by iamtheone

uhmmmmmmmm....errrrr......no marriage??

lol... hope ur normal

Quiz_Master · 01-07-2007, 10:50 PM

Love marrige (If I actually find a girl who agrees to merry me

).

Arrange marriges- How can you spend your life with a person you don't even properly know?

cynosure · 01-07-2007, 11:42 PM

Question:: Abe agar arrange marriage ki to what am I gonna do for the first few months???
Ans:: Pehle aap, Pehle aap.

gxsaurav · 01-07-2007, 11:57 PM

lolz...

see, arranged marriges are not always bad. I see many couples married here, even some of my friend guys & gals ( ya ya, those gals got married at 22, 23) are married like that & quite happy.

comrade · 02-07-2007, 12:00 AM

try
{
love marriage;
if works
continue;
else
{
divorce;
do {
arranged marriage; }
}

deadlyvenom · 02-07-2007, 12:22 AM

loveeeeeeeeeeee loveeeeeee loveeeeeeeeeeee loveeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

Aberforth · 06-07-2007, 06:43 PM

If I were to marry I'd marry a girl I like, know well enough adnd we are compatible with each other. My present girlfriend (for 5 years) fits the bill close enough so I am not looking around. I'd hold off marriage for another 7 - 10 years as I have a lot of things to do before settling down.

Arranged marriage might be good for some people depending on circumstances but definitely not me. I think it is in my blood, my parents and grandparents had inter-racial and inter-religious love marriages.

::cyborg:: · 07-07-2007, 12:06 AM

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Originally Posted by iamtheone

uhmmmmmmmm....errrrr......no marriage??

hey man are u going to use your hand all ur life or

cynosure · 07-07-2007, 09:12 AM

^^

iamtheone sounds like an 8 year old. Come on man grow up. Theres no life w/o marriage.

max_demon · 07-07-2007, 09:14 AM

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Originally Posted by ::cyborg::

hey man are u going to use your hand all ur life or

Ha ha ha!

For me too no marrige
i m not ganna use hand or any other method for that ( u know what

)

NO 5!^# NO !^631 NO Marrige

Only Computers!!!

rakeshishere · 07-07-2007, 11:19 AM

You Guys are going "Offtopic"

it_waaznt_me · 07-07-2007, 04:12 PM

How about an arranged love marriage ..?

morpheusv6 · 07-07-2007, 04:20 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by it_waaznt_me

How about an arranged love marriage ..?

What is arranged love marriage???

And, how many 'gals' are really reading this thread(or even on the forum for that matter)? Such topics are started by guys.

Anyhow, I believe that a person is never too old for love

and two persons really like each other and have an understanding that can last thier life, then I think they should marry.

But beware of guys and gals who like to just tease their way into the life of others making them belive its 'love'.

And it depends on whether the person is broad minded enough to not let religion, caste come in the way of real love, sometimes orthodox parents oppose the marriage (I have seen a few cases in which the couple ran away because the girls parent's didn't want a SC son in law).

gxsaurav · 07-07-2007, 04:23 PM

^^^ abe, that will require serious game plan. Like bumping into the father of the bride accidently & then approaching for marriage, when u r the bf of the gal already.

Although, not a bad idea

morpheusv6 · 07-07-2007, 04:25 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by max_demon

Ha ha ha!

For me too no marrige
i m not ganna use hand or any other method for that ( u know what

)

NO 5!^# NO !^631 NO Marrige

Only Computers!!!

Do your parents know this?

Your opinion is likely to change when you fall in in love.

iamtheone · 07-07-2007, 06:16 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ::cyborg::

hey man are u going to use your hand all ur life or

lolz nah i meant i wud always prefer live in relationships over marriages coz once u r married there is a legal compulsion for u to stay in that relationship (offcourse divorse is a way but then in our indian society there are some cultural limitations bounding us frm taking that step too)and then maybe just maybe u or ur partner breaks the marriage becoz of the frustation or ne other reasons.but in case of live in relationships,i think they r far more succesful than marriage coz in them both the ppl are together by their own wish which may not always be the case in marriages

@cyborg:man do u really think that u cannot lose thatuse of your hand before getting married??

@cynosure:no dude,this is a 16 year old who is infinitely more mature in these matters than u can ever think