Who is wrong? and who is Right? please dont ignore I need all your opinion

[harsh471]

Plz dont neglet my opinion, please give me your opinion, i need it to save myself.

The story goes like this, I love a girl, and I have talked to her dad, but her dad said no, and told that she is already engaged with an NRI, and my dad even went and told that NRI that, the girl and I both love each other, still than he married her, now all the people in her family thinks that that guy is very good as he still agreed to marry even after knowing all this, I think that he is so rude, as if he really loved her he would have understood her and let her go, her parents are proud of him, and they are telling me that I am bad and not really loving her , as if was loving her truely I would have let her go, She wants to get out of this mess, but loves her parents and dont wont to hurt them , so please tell who is good and who is bad.. Plz tell me as I need as more opinion as i get to make her understand the reality...

[sujoyp]

Dude Love needs sacrifice...she is ready to sacrifice then u should too..keep everyone happy specially ur loved ones

[rhitwick]

She's married. The story ends there.

U of all people need to get out of that mess first.

[thetechfreak]

Sad story.
Follow the comments above my post.

[harsh471]

Love needs sacrifice, but sacrifice not of love itself, sacrifice of everything else for love, I dont get it why everyone takes the statement in a different way, there are two sides of a coin, but why everyone takes the other side.

[Faun]

Relying on someone else will only let you down. Take your life back dude ! There is more to life than this chemical called love.

[harsh471]

yeah I know that, even I understand, I am not letting myself down, i am doing my work, the only thing is I have seen this a thousand million of time, the same things happens, love has to sacrifice every time, terrorist kill people, do we take it as it and forget it don't we want to stop it, don't we do anything to stop it, this is one and the same thing, only if we try we can, I am not being selfish about myself but I am worried about the world, the very root to such terrorist activity are such dumb rules, that are valued more than love itself, if we all take it like that, and try to change the views, this things wont end, I don't know if I will get her back or not, but I don't want anyone else to go through the same thing, running away from love wont give us anything, at one point in life we will have to face it, so why not face it now only, and make our self strong, and help he society...

[Faun]

Agree what rhitwick said.

watch Dev D.

[Piyush]

well Harsh ...
this situation is kind of tough
and there is no way that you can be a Hero here and save the girl from being married forcefully
You can't do it all alone, your girlfriend should have contributed too i.e. she should have talk to her parents and that other guy's parents
If she could have been stubborn on her point then something should be done

but it looks like the battle is already lost
the girl cant persuade either parents
the other boy and his family is willing to go onwards
and you are just a third party....

i hope you understood what i mean....

[Faun]

^^She is already married.

[Liverpool_fan]

Whatever you do don't get into depression, that would be worst outcome for you and your family.

[harsh471]

Na that is something that won't ever happen in my life, I ain't like that, I am thankful to god for whay he jas given me. I love god so won't get depressed like that, I just hate this rules...

[ico]

Move on, honestly.

[Piyush]

she is already married....
then there nothing else left here

move on bro, there's much more to life than these things

[asingh]

Life is like this. She made a choice which is "her parents". So she loved them more than you loved her. Try to distract your mind and do other things.

Be careful for the future.

[krishnandu.sarkar]

I really think, you have nothing to do. She made her choice. Sorry bro, but that's the truth. Forget her, find someone else.

[gagan007]

Life's is not lost when you lose a lover. it goes on, so should you.

The girl has sacrificed your love for her parent's love which in my opinion is good thing. Respect this decision of hers and let her go. More you linger, more problems will arise. Just try to move on.

[ico]

Originally Posted by gagan007

The girl has sacrificed your love for her parent's love which in my opinion is good thing. Respect this decision of hers and let her go.

I won't say that her sacrifice was a "good" thing. But her decision needs to be respected.

[harsh471]

Bro i want opinion on what is right and what is wrong, I know the truth, I am moving, I need to see who who is wrong whobis right... that's all...

[ico]

The parents are wrong.
The girl is neither right nor wrong.
You are neither right nor wrong.
NRI fella might be wrong. Or might not be.

[krishnandu.sarkar]

^^Right, agree.

[harsh471]

Reason why nri fella might he right or wrong

[Liverpool_fan]

Clearly you haven't moved on if you are thinking who's right/who's wrong. Forget about it. Obsessing about it will only lead to negative consequences.

[ico]

He might be wrong. But then I don't know him. He might be right. But then I don't know him.

From what you have posted I can only comment upon the girl's parents and the girl.

And move on, seriously. Stop thinking about her.

[krishnandu.sarkar]

Look, ab sock ke koi fayda nahi ki who is right or who is wrong. So leave it, none of you were right, none of you were wrong.

Don't try to be a hero, like you sacrificed or so.

Just find someone else.

For few months there would be problem, but if you concentrate on other things, everything will be alright after 1-2 months. Then find some other girl.

[harsh471]

She still calls me and tells me everytime she loves me and will me till she dies, that nri fella already knew everything about her and me, even many other from his family also knew abour our lovw but still he married her...

[ico]

She married him too.

[Liverpool_fan]

Originally Posted by harsh471

She still calls me and tells me everytime she loves me and will me till she dies, that nri fella already knew everything about her and me, even many other from his family also knew abour our lovw but still he married her...

Hmm... if that's the case he's either too arrogant to consider a lady's wishes or maybe he has married her for money or something. But then the girl did stood by and married the guy, either way doesn't matter to you.
Ignore her calls really, it's not doing her or you any favours.

[The Sorcerer]

Have you tried asking Ekta Kapoor?

How does it matter now who is right and who is wrong? Ignore her calls. If she loved ya, why did she marry him? Money and security? She is in the arms of another man. Get a new hobby- and a cake.

Get me wrong if you want but that's the world we live in. She is married to someone else but prefers to use you. Yeah- you know what I am talking about.

[Sam]

This is Life

Originally Posted by The Sorcerer

Get a new hobby- and a cake.