The relationships help thread.

Psychosocial · 03-06-2010, 12:56 PM

I got the idea for this thread from the UltimateGuitar forums. This is not only for boyfriend/girlfriend relationships but all. Wether you are having probs with your mom or your relative. If your friend has some prob with... just ask and people will try to help you.

Part of the reason to make this is all the 54616584651 love threads being created. So post all that stuff here.

If the thread seems inappropriate, the mods are welcome to lock/delete it.

harryneopotter · 03-06-2010, 01:04 PM

where is the subscribe button and popcorn ?

DeSmOnD dAvId · 03-06-2010, 01:55 PM

^ Lol.....
This will be a good read. Like a real life drama novel.

Psychosocial · 03-06-2010, 02:08 PM

lol don't discourage people otherwise there will be still more of 'those' thread.

People, don't be shy. Post whatever you feel like posting.

Oh and one more thing, don't name people. Use substitues.

krates · 03-06-2010, 02:16 PM

how to make a freind ( Girl ) to break up with a person who is completely fake and she can't see the facts?

furious_gamer · 03-06-2010, 02:37 PM

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Originally Posted by krates

how to make a freind ( Girl ) to break up with a person who is completely fake and she can't see the facts?

Just slap her in the face...

Psychosocial · 03-06-2010, 02:56 PM

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Originally Posted by krates

how to make a freind ( Girl ) to break up with a person who is completely fake and she can't see the facts?

Okay I am no expert but I have had my fair share of experience.

1) Are you friends with the girl ?
2) How close are this boy and girl ?
3) Give a very brief background of the girl. No I am not talking about what music she listens to or what brand lipstick she uses. I am talking about her nature.

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Originally Posted by rajkumar_pb

Just slap her in the face...

LOL... she will slap him back. And then that guy would come and beat him up real bad

thewisecrab · 03-06-2010, 03:02 PM

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Originally Posted by krates

how to make a freind ( Girl ) to break up with a person who is completely fake and she can't see the facts?

Stalk?

LOL, I dunno why am I in this thread. I'm a mess myself

Nice initiative though

confused · 03-06-2010, 03:13 PM

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Originally Posted by thewisecrab

I'm a mess myself

We all are...

furious_gamer · 03-06-2010, 04:18 PM

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Originally Posted by krates

how to make a freind ( Girl ) to break up with a person who is completely fake and she can't see the facts?

Well, if you're her classmate, then its not a big deal. Just be her friend (hope you know the steps already

). And start showing her the truth about that guy slowly. One day she will recognise what's she doing. That day is your day...

Psychosocial · 03-06-2010, 04:29 PM

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Originally Posted by rajkumar_pb

Well, if you're her classmate, then its not a big deal. Just be her friend (hope you know the steps already

). And start showing her the truth about that guy slowly. One day she will recognise what's she doing. That day is your day...

That's called 'rushing'. That is one of the many things you shouldn't do when you are upto something so tricky with a girl.

He needs to first be friends with her, get close and then do it!

furious_gamer · 03-06-2010, 04:32 PM

^^
I think thats what i wrote in my previous post.

gopi_vbboy · 03-06-2010, 05:26 PM

slowly this thread will be hijacked n become gf queries thread...lol...i c especially gf-related thread replied at faster rate than any....

rhitwick · 03-06-2010, 05:43 PM

LOL, I was thinking about creating such thread for a long time, but then ROSSI and his delete button.

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Originally Posted by gopi_vbboy

slowly this thread will be hijacked n become gf queries thread...lol...i c especially gf-related thread replied at faster rate than any....

Obviously yaar, ek wohi to issue hai hamare life mein.

Psychosocial · 03-06-2010, 06:06 PM

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Originally Posted by rajkumar_pb

^^
I think thats what i wrote in my previous post.

You said be her 'friend'. A friend means nothing to a girl. To actually hold importance in a girl's life, especially the ones who think of themselves as the queens, you need to be what they call their 'BFFs'.

. That's why I said, be a friend, get close and then start scoring.

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Originally Posted by rhitwick

LOL, I was thinking about creating such thread for a long time, but then ROSSI and his delete button.

Obviously yaar, ek wohi to issue hai hamare life mein.

For every other issue, there's Google.

confused · 03-06-2010, 06:12 PM

<...me sees a bright future for this thread...>

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@all - anyone vote for a sticky?

rhitwick · 03-06-2010, 06:32 PM

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Originally Posted by confused

@all - anyone vote for a sticky?

I

Need to fill the quota bu typing meaningless comment.

**vamsi_krishna** · 03-06-2010, 08:37 PM

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Originally Posted by krates

how to make a freind ( Girl ) to break up with a person who is completely fake and she can't see the facts?

First question.. is the girl clean?

krates · 03-06-2010, 09:17 PM

^^ obviously.. she is no classmate.. She is one of my best friends.. but I don't like her like that... the thing is she proposed me but I did not like her like that so I said no.. after some days she started noticing one of my friend and my friend is being very nice to her obviously to get her but my friend is no innocent guy and his habits are very wrong which she doesn't know I tried to tell her but she is not listening..

She is very good by nature.. studious.. -10% techy.. and love music

I want her to break up with that guy as he is not a person I want my friend to be with and if she comes her habit to know then it can happen

adi007 · 03-06-2010, 09:58 PM

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Originally Posted by krates

^^ obviously.. she is no classmate.. She is one of my best friends.. but I don't like her like that... the thing is she proposed me but I did not like her like that so I said no.. after some days she started noticing one of my friend and my friend is being very nice to her obviously to get her but my friend is no innocent guy and his habits are very wrong which she doesn't know I tried to tell her but she is not listening..

She is very good by nature.. studious.. -10% techy.. and love music

I want her to break up with that guy as he is not a person I want my friend to be with and if she comes her habit to know then it can happen

Krates: Date of Birth
March 13, 1993 (17)
Psychosocial : November 1, 1994 (15)
Hmm dont you think you people are too young for all these drama ..?

And i hope everyone says their age before they give their *suggestion/advice* ..
My Age: 20

thewisecrab · 03-06-2010, 10:44 PM

@Vamsi_Krishna

Kickass siggy

krates · 03-06-2010, 11:44 PM

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Originally Posted by adi007

Krates: Date of Birth
March 13, 1993 (17)
Psychosocial : November 1, 1994 (15)
Hmm dont you think you people are too young for all these drama ..?

And i hope everyone says their age before they give their *suggestion/advice* ..
My Age: 20

I dont understand what it got to do with age... Atleast we are not the ones who are having kids at 13 ..

Psychosocial · 04-06-2010, 12:15 AM

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Originally Posted by adi007

Krates: Date of Birth
March 13, 1993 (17)
Psychosocial : November 1, 1994 (15)
Hmm dont you think you people are too young for all these drama ..?

And i hope everyone says their age before they give their *suggestion/advice* ..
My Age: 20

Age dosen't matter. Experience does. And I didn't say that I would be the one who will help. I said everyone can contribute.

And I am 15 and my dad's 40+ ...still I know more tech than him. Age has nothing to do with this.

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Originally Posted by krates

^^ obviously.. she is no classmate.. She is one of my best friends.. but I don't like her like that... the thing is she proposed me but I did not like her like that so I said no.. after some days she started noticing one of my friend and my friend is being very nice to her obviously to get her but my friend is no innocent guy and his habits are very wrong which she doesn't know I tried to tell her but she is not listening..

She is very good by nature.. studious.. -10% techy.. and love music

I want her to break up with that guy as he is not a person I want my friend to be with and if she comes her habit to know then it can happen

Then it's a straight path for you mate. Keep in contact with her and keep getting closer and slowly and slowly open up her eyes.

One thing you gotta be careful is that never go in for the kill without evidence. Girls are smart. If you go and say that 'Hey, don't go near that guy... he's been like flirting with a thousand girls' ...she will ask for evidence (names of a few girls, etc). So always be prepared. If you can't win with the truth, lie. Sure relationships are from the heart and stuff but you gotta always use your rationality.

If nothing's happening, get another of your female friend to act for you. As a fake evidence maybe ? Ask her to go and tell the girl that this guy tried to flirt with her and he's bad and stuff.

I hope you work something out.

**krishnandu.sarkar** · 04-06-2010, 12:37 AM

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Originally Posted by krates

^^ obviously.. she is no classmate.. She is one of my best friends.. but I don't like her like that... the thing is she proposed me but I did not like her like that so I said no.. after some days she started noticing one of my friend and my friend is being very nice to her obviously to get her but my friend is no innocent guy and his habits are very wrong which she doesn't know I tried to tell her but she is not listening..

She is very good by nature.. studious.. -10% techy.. and love music

I want her to break up with that guy as he is not a person I want my friend to be with and if she comes her habit to know then it can happen

Accha aam rakhna bhi hai aur khana bhi hai?? (Dialogue : Saathiya)

@Psychosocial Do you work as Love Guru in any of those **** TV/Radio shows??

rhitwick · 04-06-2010, 12:50 AM

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Originally Posted by krishnandu.sarkar

@Psychosocial Do you work as Love Guru in any of those **** TV/Radio shows??

[this may be a troll

]

Man, I remember, he used to be a "Oh I so so hate love and gals, they r naive, dumbo" etc. Now he has a GF and from "psycho" he has become "social".

BUT, the intention for this thread is good, I support it

**krishnandu.sarkar** · 04-06-2010, 12:57 AM

Me too...!! I don't find any other way to share my GYAN...!!

+1 for Sticky.

Psychosocial · 04-06-2010, 01:03 AM

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Originally Posted by krishnandu.sarkar

Accha aam rakhna bhi hai aur khana bhi hai?? (Dialogue : Saathiya)

@Psychosocial Do you work as Love Guru in any of those **** TV/Radio shows??

No. I help people manipulate other people. Is that bad ?

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Originally Posted by rhitwick

[this may be a troll

]

Man, I remember, he used to be a "Oh I so so hate love and gals, they r naive, dumbo" etc. Now he has a GF and from "psycho" he has become "social".

BUT, the intention for this thread is good, I support it

That was the time when I was an immature, pants over the head retard. I am still not a social butterfly but I understand humans much better now. Atleast girls.

Thanks for the support lol... I hope it is 'entertaining' to you.