Gf issues

**ssk_the_gr8** · 16-05-2010, 06:00 PM

Mods please close this thread

celldweller1591 · 16-05-2010, 06:34 PM

Its normal dude. Trust me, every guy feels the same at some point in his relationship.
At first, girls and relationships are not like operating systems, that you go and test and then uninstall. =))
Once you get into it, you are equally responsible for everything. Give your relationship sometime. Dont get freak out. You are actually overreacting

. Your mind is not stable bcoz you are thinking too much about this thing. Chill and then give it a thought. I am sure you will get a solution.
In the end, my fav. words :-
"If you fc*k a woman nicely, she will love you for rest of your life but if you love a woman nicely,she will fc*k you for rest of your life !"

**ssk_the_gr8** · 16-05-2010, 07:25 PM

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Originally Posted by celldweller1591

Its normal dude. Trust me, every guy feels the same at some point in his relationship.
At first, girls and relationships are not like operating systems, that you go and test and then uninstall. =))
Once you get into it, you are equally responsible for everything. Give your relationship sometime. Dont get freak out. You are actually overreacting

. Your mind is not stable bcoz you are thinking too much about this thing. Chill and then give it a thought. I am sure you will get a solution.
In the end, my fav. words :-
"If you fc*k a woman nicely, she will love you for rest of your life but if you love a woman nicely,she will fc*k you for rest of your life !"

why the hell am i irritated with her, is what i dont get

BTW,awesome quote

celldweller1591 · 16-05-2010, 07:52 PM

its just because she's too serious about this relationship and she is very much into you and on the other hand, you cant make up your mind whether you want to keep up or not. Ask her for some time to think.

**ssk_the_gr8** · 16-05-2010, 07:55 PM

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Originally Posted by celldweller1591

Ask her for some time to think.

i dare not do that...
she'll bloody eat my head....
my ears will bleed from all the emotional sh1t it'll have to take...

**ico** · 16-05-2010, 09:53 PM

Who can help you.

**ssk_the_gr8** · 16-05-2010, 09:55 PM

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Originally Posted by ico

Who can help you.

are u talking abt Who from irc?

Rahim · 16-05-2010, 10:08 PM

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Originally Posted by ssk_the_gr8

why the hell am i irritated with her, is what i dont get

bcoz she has suddenly became your wife rather than your mistress

tell her that your 1st love is MAN UTD and then her, she would understand and tone down

**ssk_the_gr8** · 16-05-2010, 10:43 PM

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Originally Posted by a_rahim

bcoz she has suddenly became your wife rather than your mistress

i dont know... guess its true

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Originally Posted by a_rahim

tell her that your 1st love is MAN UTD and then her, she would understand and tone down

she's knows that now... stays away from me the day after which united lose
and try's to come near me the day after which united win... lol cuz i'm sweet to her then

**krishnandu.sarkar** · 16-05-2010, 10:45 PM

Forget everything. Stop thinking. Let it go as it's going

adi007 · 16-05-2010, 11:41 PM

I dont understand the modern macho guys .. They want gf but for time-pass/testing ..
Yikes .. according to me its time waste .. 'you like her but not serious' .. hmmm

I suggest you to get serious into a relationship..

The gal loves you so much .. What else you need ..If i were in your place and if i had a job then i would have married her ..

Whats your and the gal's age and what you 2 are doing..?

CA50 · 17-05-2010, 09:57 AM

don`t go for testing GF its really harmful.

About your case, confessing would be rather a bad idea. instead try to get rid of her slowly. 1st change your behavior toward her slowly.

Hey if she is grt they why are you trying to get rid of her, instead you can continue the relation with her and you can also make her understand that marriage at this point would not be a great idea. Instead you both can concentrate on your respective careers.

PS: I am not a love guru so can`t give you any great suggestion. Hope this will come handy

Krazzy Warrior · 17-05-2010, 10:22 AM

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Originally Posted by ico

Who can help you.

True..

Rishabh_sharma1990 · 17-05-2010, 11:50 AM

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Originally Posted by adi007

I dont understand the modern macho guys .. They want gf but for time-pass/testing ..
Yikes .. according to me its time waste .. 'you like her but not serious' .. hmmm

I suggest you to get serious into a relationship..

The gal loves you so much .. What else you need ..If i were in your place and if i had a job then i would have married her ..

Whats your and the gal's age and what you 2 are doing..?

+1
chahe jo tumhe...pure dil se.....

furious_gamer · 17-05-2010, 01:10 PM

@OP

Just drag her away from your life. Its safe for her.

Rather try to screw with a gal who is also want to have a timepass relationship..

If you want to get into serious relationsh1t, then go get her, but try to make her understand marriage is too much for a month and its all happen. So either go with serious relationsh1t or go get a flirty girl who dont want a serious sh1t..

P.S : Dont ever think about these. This will eat your head and leave you brainless. Also makes you go deep down in your career or studies.

**ssk_the_gr8** · 18-05-2010, 12:25 AM

ok.....
so there are 2 chain of thoughts here......
she loves me a lot so i should love her back..
& pushing her away

i like the idea of pushing her away........

one of the main reasons for this is something i've recently noticed
now that the infatuation is over and i talk a lot to her
we have few common interests...
we listen to different types of music
we watch different movies...
we're interested in different subjects
we have very few things in common...
which kinda makes me understand why i'm running out of stuff to talk to her...
the only thing i can see is i give this a little time & see where it goes...

right now i'm chatting with her while typing this

... she's talking away about some friend's friend's issue... i keep saying yes,yes & yes... not fun anymore

Liverpool_fan · 18-05-2010, 05:52 PM

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Originally Posted by ssk_the_gr8

are u talking abt Who from irc?

Yup behave like him and see how the girl runs away from you

DarkDante · 18-05-2010, 09:28 PM

^lol true....kya prof hai yaar who...

furious_gamer · 18-05-2010, 11:57 PM

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Originally Posted by Liverpool_fan

Yup behave like him and see how the girl runs away from you

Proof? Link please?

**ico** · 19-05-2010, 12:46 AM

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Originally Posted by rajkumar_pb

Proof? Link please?

For this one needs to come at our IRC channel. #krow @ irc.freenode.net
Or simply click the link in my signature. Come preferably during 6pm to 12pm.

a_medico · 19-05-2010, 12:56 AM

End the relationship. This relationship won't work for you. Compromise doesn't seem like a good solution. Will ruin both's future. By saying no, she will be hurt for few days....might hate other guys etc...but in the long run it will be a good decision for her too.

Next time you like a girl, get into a relationship only if you mean it, now that you are an experienced person!

As I am typing this...I feel like I am an Agony Aunt. Have never done this before. Wouldn't do it usually as its none of my business but have I seen your Id somewhere? Maybe on the movie thread. So thought of replying. Don't listen to anybody. Listen to yourself. All the best.

Oh by the way this ones from The Beach - 'When you develop an infatuation for someone you always find a reason to believe that this is exactly the person for you. It doesn't need to be a good reason. Taking photographs of the night sky, for example. Now, in the long run, that's just the kind of dumb, irritating habit that would cause you to split up. But in the haze of infatuation, it's just what you've been searching for all these years.'

**ssk_the_gr8** · 19-05-2010, 06:42 AM

@a_medico

yeah, i do goto the movie thread..have watched a lot of movies on you people's recommendation

even i'm leaning towards ending it..
and how the hell do i know that i mean it, and i should enter in the relationship?
at the beginning, during the chase , when you're infatuated.. the girls seems perfect in every way!!!

Cool Buddy · 19-05-2010, 11:40 AM

being insensitive is the last thing I wish to do, but man..... You are in a mess

**ssk_the_gr8** · 19-05-2010, 03:42 PM

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Originally Posted by Cool Buddy

being insensitive is the last thing I wish to do, but man..... You are in a mess

i know i am...

gotta fix it

confused · 21-05-2010, 12:59 AM

Hey times sure are changing.... a couple of yrs back there were love story threads stretching for months, now look at damngoodman's thread only 7 days!!! CLOSED!!! Love Story Over, Chapter Khatam!!! Truly this must be LOVE AAJ KAL!!!