DAMNGOODMAN fell in love !!

[damngoodman999]

It is strange that i fell in love but this is my first day (means i saw the girl for first time "LOVE @ FIRST SIGHT"), i was depressed that am doing this , i was working as trainer in a computer center i was teaching java to another girl by the time a girl came sit in my front and started working in C++ , immediately she got doubt i just went near her by hearing her voice & she asked my name - i was so impressed by the way she speaks immediately i cant clear her doubts i just dono wat am doing i began to laugh my self , this is first time am doing like this .

Is this called real love ??

i cant stop to think abt her she is 3 years lower than me but she is good enough ,, i never resist to think abt her , hmm 3 years gona make any difference in love she is lower anyways it happens but u guyz think i need to re consider my self before starting dreams ???

when should i propose her ,, from monday on wards i am going to take her as my student !! when is the right time to propose her !!

[Baker]

Originally Posted by damngoodman999

Is this called real love ??

u cant say real love on the first sight itself.... its just an infatuation...

it will take time to realize whether its a real love or not

just my thoughts..

[Tech.Masti]

attraction between teacher - student is common.....

[sujoyp]

Just keep on talking to her normally...and see if ur chemistry matches....if u both get some intimacy with time then only u can propose her...

If she just treat u like any other teacher...then there is only a little hope

[rhitwick]

@damngoodman, man wait....

Observe and proceed.

Just give her and your feelings one week, and in between get to know her as much a you can. First try to get a notion about her mindset, does she even hover in your frequency level, then how she reacts to everything (you, your friends, her friends, strangers etc) then decide if u can adjust with her.......


Beautiful Girl + you + bilnded by by beauty + propose without knowing background= is disastrous (sometimes fruitful too )

[azzu]

I say F*** The world
u knw u love her...
wat else matters?

[confused]

my 3 words:
LOVE is LOL

seriously man, why make everything sound so serious by calling it LOVE???
Try dating her without expectations, if it works out MASTWA, otherwise move on...
(nalla mattu ku oru soodu)

my 2 cents

[utsav]

love sucks

i didnt read ur post but i knw luv sucks n always hurts so dnt fall for anything called love

[confused]

Originally Posted by rhitwick

bleh.....


Beautiful Girl + you + bilnded by by beauty + propose without knowing background= is disastrous (sometimes fruitful too )

NOT WORTH IT, TRUST ME!

@rhitwick - kyun faltu ka expectation bada raha hai bechare ka???

PS:-How long till this thread gets blocked??

[rhitwick]

Everyone should fall in love, at least once (I fall in love everyday though )

What u've experienced everyone should do too. What have not suited u, might suite someone else....but everyone should fall in love.

[utsav]

^^ u hav gone nutzzz man u r gonna kill that poor DAMN GOOD MAN

[krates]

damngoodman you must be having damngoodthoughts these days but control and proceed..

[damngoodman999]

Guyz , thanks for ur comments !

But in this Morning otself i cant even workout in gym , i never felt like this my energy level is low - i am confused of wearing dresses which color & all , just spoke only 5 min with her !

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My real problem is ,, Wat if she already has a boyfriend - i was waiting this kind'a girl for years - so wat can i do if its suppose be like this ??

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@ utsav

I cant believe that u r saying like this ?? wat happened ??

[Rishabh_sharma1990]

Originally Posted by damngoodman999

My real problem is ,, Wat if she already has a boyfriend - i was waiting this kind'a girl for years - so wat can i do if its suppose be like this ??

hey I think that doesn't matter at all, it's not in ur hand.
just make your own place in her heart.
u might definitely have something that she'll like

[sujoyp]

yaah like everybody say ..just go slow and steady...try to know her

in somedays u would automatically know when is the right time

[Kl@w-24]

Zat is not love at first sight, it's just infatuation. Get to know her first and then we shall see.

[furious_gamer]

Originally Posted by confused

my 3 words:
LOVE is LOL

seriously man, why make everything sound so serious by calling it LOVE???
Try dating her without expectations, if it works out MASTWA, otherwise move on...
(nalla mattu ku oru soodu)

my 2 cents

Thats my way... I prefer this over fell in love @ first sight. Urgh!!! I hate that feeling where we cant do our daily activites, juz like DGM said..

Originally Posted by utsav

love sucks

i didnt read ur post but i knw luv sucks n always hurts so dnt fall for anything called love

Experience !!!!!!!!!!!

Originally Posted by damngoodman999

Guyz , thanks for ur comments !

But in this Morning otself i cant even workout in gym , i never felt like this my energy level is low - i am confused of wearing dresses which color & all , just spoke only 5 min with her !

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My real problem is ,, Wat if she already has a boyfriend - i was waiting this kind'a girl for years - so wat can i do if its suppose be like this ??

Just flirt with her, date her and know about her. If she suits in your pocket, put her in, Otherwise keep it in hanger.... Because there is always one out there that fit in yours...

[sujoyp]

Just flirt with her, date her and know about her. If she suits in your pocket, put her in, Otherwise keep it in hanger.... Because there is always one out there that fit in yours...

I loved this comment

[furious_gamer]

Originally Posted by sujoyp

I loved this comment

Learnt from experience...

[vamsi_krishna]

you know.. there is nothing called love at first sight.. but.. there is a thing called attraction at first sight.

According to me.. Attraction = beginning stage of love.
Love = advanced stage of attraction.

what is love??? love is nothing but a set of electrical signals generated by human brain when he wants to define the relation between the girl that he wants in a good way. I don't know why some pros will relate this thing to human heart.

damngoodman, don't give a damn. Just proceed with caution. All the best. Hope this turns out into a soul mate.. thingy. But do consider age difference. And the Teacher-student love thingy is not good. It fudging jeopardizes the healthy relation. I say... make her teacher or you become a student. Or, get rid of the job. This is only my personal opinion anyway.

[thewisecrab]

This is infatuation, not "love at first sight".

Anyways, good luck cadet

[azzu]

Originally Posted by vamsi_krishna

what is love??? love is nothing but a set of electrical signals generated by human brain when he wants to define the relation between the girl that he wants in a good way. I don't know why some pros will relate this thing to human heart.

electircal ... signals .. ?
man here's a PRO nerd

Cmon dont say u dont beleive in love ..and its just a Chemical imabalance (chemical locha )etc..

[furious_gamer]

Originally Posted by vamsi_krishna

you know.. there is nothing called love at first sight.. but.. there is a thing called attraction at first sight.

According to me.. Attraction = beginning stage of love.
Love = advanced stage of attraction.

Originally Posted by vamsi_krishna

what is love??? love is nothing but a set of electrical signals generated by human brain when he wants to define the relation between the girl that he wants in a good way. I don't know why some pros will relate this thing to human heart.

damngoodman, don't give a damn. Just proceed with caution. All the best. Hope this turns out into a soul mate.. thingy. But do consider age difference. And the Teacher-student love thingy is not good. It fudging jeopardizes the healthy relation. I say... make her teacher or you become a student. Or, get rid of the job. This is only my personal opinion anyway.

He is not a teacher. He is a trainer that too temporarily. .

[vamsi_krishna]

Originally Posted by azzu

electircal ... signals .. ?
man here's a PRO nerd

Cmon dont say u dont beleive in love ..and its just a Chemical imabalance (chemical locha )etc..

Oh yes, my friend. We have much stronger and good Electrical signals for the ones we like.

And i am telling that they are signals. But the damn signals that are keeping the world a better place. Don't take these pulses the easy way. They are powerful and are so.. effective that these pulses can make a person do anything for the people they love.

[utsav]

Originally Posted by damngoodman999

@ utsav

I cant believe that u r saying like this ?? wat happened ??

everything's over

[Faun]

it works when both people feel the same way at the same time. One sided is a disaster unless u r a battle hardened marine and duke nukem with ballz of steels.

From my experience and prince of persia's too: wishful thinking leads to disappointment. Max Payne said it right: The trouble with wanting something is the fear of losing it or never getting it. The thought makes u weak.

Dont get too much involved, nobody appreciates free tacos even if they r the best one can get in lifetime. Best of luck. Take ur time, keep it cool.

Love is something when u can take the risk of living with remembrance without that person there for u. At first it may be attraction and feeling lonely without her.

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Originally Posted by utsav

everything's over

Reason ? ..........

[ssk_the_gr8]

dont want to hijack your thread DGM
but i'm kinda in the same situation... but the difference is both are students
i can talk to all the girls in the class... but not her
when i think of talking to her i just cant seem to be able to.. its strange
i have all weird thoughts in my head like...will she think i'm trying to hit on her(which i'm trying to ,BTW ) ...etc...

i really dont know what happens to me.. i want her badly but cant seem to do it & btw, she's awfully pretty, so i have major doubts whether a girl like this will be single..

[adi007]

Beautiful Girl + you + bilnded by by beauty + propose without knowing background= is disastrous

^^Exactly

[Faun]

Originally Posted by rhitwick

Everyone should fall in love, at least once (I fall in love everyday though )

Is it like? : why do i fall in love with every woman who shows the least bit of attention to me ?*

*Eternal sunshine of the spotless mind.

[utsav]

Originally Posted by kanjar

it works when both people feel the same way at the same time. One sided is a disaster unless u r a battle hardened marine and duke nukem with ballz of steels.

From my experience and prince of persia's too: wishful thinking leads to disappointment. Max Payne said it right: The trouble with wanting something is the fear of losing it or never getting it. The thought makes u weak.

Dont get too much involved, nobody appreciates free tacos even if they r the best one can get in lifetime. Best of luck. Take ur time, keep it cool.

Love is something when u can take the risk of living with remembrance without that person there for u. At first it may be attraction and feeling lonely without her.

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Reason ? ..........

well i was just kiddin , it was one sided from the very beginning and in the last few months she was kinda lonely n then a guy came closer to her even when he knew each n every stuffs abt me and in simple terms stole her from me , i left her happily but then i thot , heh!!! am i a fool? she just got carried away and am in luv wid her for over 8 yrs and that guy just STOLE her away from me misusing the time when she was in need , and i knw i am a guy who is like a BATTLE HARDENED MARINE AND CAN TAKE ANYTHING THAT COME MY WAY , not joking seriously. and also she is so conservative that even after commitment wid that guy she wont go out on dates , wont meet out , wont tell her parents for the next 6 yrs else she will be doomed , i knw that she would be kicked out of the college by her parents if any of them gets to knw abt this . well kicking out that guy from my way wont be tough for me even if i dont do anything coz a relationship wont last for 6 yrs when a girl is like that in this modern age and she has already started feeling guilty for what she had done to me , she is dying to meet me n talk to me but unable to muster the courage to do so , i have a great spy network all around her , her neighbors , college friends and every damn GIRL in her close proximity (no matter 16 or 26 )knows me and gives me every info abt her ,poor gal :roll: