Girly problem help!!!

Bookworm · 08-03-2009, 05:42 PM

Having a major problem nowadays. A girl nearby is really creating creating havoc for me. She could not understand even the simplest of the mathematical problems(such as Cross multiplication, Ratio&Proportion, finding value of x in a equation) and is daily coming to me to solve these. She didn't study anything of maths for the whole year(excusing that she don't understand anything) and is telling me to make her understand. I couldn't deny her coz her father is a friend of my father and ofcourse neighbour. She takes more than 1 and half hour time daily. It started from 5 days.What will I do??

Please tell the solution.

Faun · 08-03-2009, 05:48 PM

Tell her to come with atleast four people and then you can only teach them with some tuition fee.

Profit !!!

Bookworm · 08-03-2009, 05:49 PM

I am not a tutor but a HS student

victor_rambo · 08-03-2009, 05:55 PM

Hmmm.......pretend to be ill and tell your parents about this.

From the thread title, I thought you also have some "My Love Story" kind of problems

08-03-2009, 05:56 PM

do something.....
u dont hav another chance.

rhitwick · 08-03-2009, 06:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Bookworm

Having a major problem nowadays. A girl nearby is really creating creating havoc for me. She could not understand even the simplest of the mathematical problems(such as Cross multiplication, Ratio&Proportion, finding value of x in a equation) and is daily coming to me to solve these. She is reading in Class VIII. She didn't study anything of maths for the whole year(excusing that she don't understand anything) and is telling me to make her understand. I couldn't deny her coz her father is a friend of my father and ofcourse neighbour. She takes more than 1 and half hour time daily. It started from 5 days.What will I do??

Please tell the solution. Oh I could not wrote more she is waiting for me in the Drawing room.

So, what IS ur problem?

1>U don't like her
2>U don't want to teach her
3>U don't like Math either

red_devil · 08-03-2009, 06:52 PM

gah...when i saw the thread title "GIRLY PROBLEM HELP"...i thought way to differently.

anyways, assuming you want to avoid her, just say your problem to your parents first.. then inform that girl that you are busy doing something (even if you're not)....do that a couple of days and you should be escaping her.

Krazzy Warrior · 08-03-2009, 06:55 PM

Do u like her??lol..kidding

Just suggest him a good math book and say her to read it all...

Coool · 08-03-2009, 07:00 PM

Slap her...tension free next day

thewisecrab · 08-03-2009, 07:44 PM

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Originally Posted by Krazzy Warrior

Do u like her??lol..kidding

Just suggest him a good math book and say her to read it all...

Why are you contradicting?

Krazzy Warrior · 08-03-2009, 07:44 PM

^^^ OMG!! her..ok...

spironox · 08-03-2009, 08:35 PM

get angry to the limit that she swells with tears

Plasma_Snake · 08-03-2009, 08:47 PM

Teach her the wrong maths, give wrong answer, make BODMAS SAMDOB for her, she'll stop coming to u after she realizes that u dunno $hit either! Simple

Bookworm · 08-03-2009, 09:03 PM

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Originally Posted by Plasma_Snake

Teach her the wrong maths, give wrong answer, make BODMAS SAMDOB for her, she'll stop coming to u after she realizes that u dunno $hit either! Simple

If I do that her parents will think myself to be a noob in Maths and still taken Sc in HS. I don't want others to think like that about me.

Faun · 08-03-2009, 09:08 PM

lol...don't hurt her by false knowledge. just tell frankly that you hav lot to study for your exams too, tell her to go to some professional tutor.

Ecstasy · 08-03-2009, 11:56 PM

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Originally Posted by red_devil

gah...when i saw the thread title "GIRLY PROBLEM HELP"...i thought way to differently.

Hahaha.. me too..

Anyway, I think you should tell her the truth (whatever it maybe) instead of making lame exuses and telling your parents and involving them.

infra_red_dude · 09-03-2009, 12:07 AM

Be straight and frank. Talk to her and say that you haf your own work and cannot spare more than '(int a)' hours/minutes a day

If that doesn't solve it, then talk to her parents and explain that you haf your own life and you may not be able to her whenever she is in need of advice or help. Believe me, being frank saves a lot of future troubles.

Go search around your place for mathematics tuition and suggest that to her parents and say that since you haf your work you may not be able to give time to her in which case she may not be able to learn. A better option is to get her to some tuitions which will haf fixed timing and duration which will surely do good to her. Tell them that getting the fundamentals right is very crucial as she will soon be giving her board exams. Hence she will need constant attention which you may not be able to give her.

This way you are neither distancing yourselves from that family nor are you giving them an indication that you are 'dumb'

Hopefully they will understand your position and get her admitted to some tuition.

rhitwick · 09-03-2009, 12:17 AM

In case u r true to ur username and in this case the books are HS course related, go to ur dad.
Tell him u can't concentrate on ur studies for her. U r unable to provide those extra efforts to ur own study. And ur problem will be solved.
Every dad is selfish enough about his son's study.

But, I still can't get ur problem. HS exam has started and u r not appearing for it, means u r in 11th. Then why don't u want to show her some maths work.
Better ask her to come twice a week (sat-sun afternoon). Phirbhi, why would u avoid?? Why...hmmm...

saqib_khan · 09-03-2009, 12:19 AM

Just say her directly that u don't have time to help her in studies. Be straight forward. You can't risk ur studies for her.

jxcess3891 · 09-03-2009, 12:23 AM

make out with her or better just do it with her but remember to wear protection. bookworm this is ur only chance.

i dont exist · 09-03-2009, 01:01 AM

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Originally Posted by jxcess3891

make out with her or better just do it with her but remember to wear protection. bookworm this is ur only chance.

YEP

im kidding btw

damngoodman999 · 09-03-2009, 02:05 AM

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Originally Posted by jxcess3891

make out with her or better just do it with her but remember to wear protection. bookworm this is ur only chance.

stupid she is small girl 8th std , do u have any brain !!??

HEY BOOKWORM change the thread title please i was shocked confusing with title & subject

i am so jealous : i dint had any kind of situation like this in my early days , off course my father had friends who has daughters but they never send to me for studying i dint mind that days

But now i am feeling guilty that i did something wrong so that only they dint send their daughter

ALL BEST -- These are best memories of the life

jxcess3891 · 09-03-2009, 02:11 AM

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Originally Posted by damngoodman999

stupid she is small girl 8th std , do u have any brain !!??

HEY BOOKWORM change the thread title please i was shocked confusing with title & subject

i am so jealous : i dint had any kind of situation like this in my early days , off course my father had friends who has daughters but they never send to me for studying i dint mind that days

But now i am feeling guilty that i did something wrong so that only they dint send their daughter

ALL BEST -- These are best memories of the life

Oh yeah. She's in VIIIth. I didn't see that. So that wud make the guy a paedophile. Now I understand the joke in that nazi picture.

Stuge · 09-03-2009, 03:21 AM

Agreed ,Thread title needs change as soon as possible .I was also confused.

Title doesn't match what your real problem or its a way of attracting us in this thread .Usually ,I leave threads with love etc problems lol.

in b/w I feel you should be frank at this stage or loss will be yours .Use your brain and act quickly .

Krazy Bluez · 09-03-2009, 05:11 AM

I was carried away by the title too....in my opinion, you should rather talk with your father that you do not want to teach her anymore...tell them that she needs a professional tutor not a "bhaiya" type....if your parents understand you then it's well and good...otherwise it will be bad for you...

krates · 09-03-2009, 08:06 AM

beat her when she does not understand anything.... from the next day she will not come...

every time she does not understand anything give her a slap

amitabhishek · 09-03-2009, 10:03 AM

As a gentleman you should help a damsel in distress. Patience is normally rewarded.

lywyre · 09-03-2009, 10:44 AM

Teaching her is the best way out. Know what, you will get even better in Mathematics.

mrintech · 09-03-2009, 11:04 AM

Better ask her to come twice a week (sat-sun afternoon) and help her in mathemeatics

Bookworm · 09-03-2009, 11:10 AM

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Originally Posted by rhitwick

In case u r true to ur username and in this case the books are HS course related, go to ur dad.
Tell him u can't concentrate on ur studies for her. U r unable to provide those extra efforts to ur own study. And ur problem will be solved.
Every dad is selfish enough about his son's study.

But, I still can't get ur problem. HS exam has started and u r not appearing for it, means u r in 11th. Then why don't u want to show her some maths work.
Better ask her to come twice a week (sat-sun afternoon). Phirbhi, why would u avoid?? Why...hmmm...

I am apperaring XII CBSE but I have 5 days left for Eng. exam which is easy. They know that and therefore sending her to me.