Guys Beware!!! Don't ever take girls of this sort too seriously ...

Guys Beware!!!

Hi friends, i am a thinkdigit regular, but i am posting under an temporary ID for reasons

that you soon understand. And like most of the TDians (Read "Do you have a girlfriend

thread"), though i am aware of the workings of the world, i am quite naive and inexperienced

when it comes to matters pertaining to the opposite sex (i am talking about practical

knowledge, not theoretical). I recently had an experience (a painful one), which made me

realise something i didnt quite know before:that some girls (almost always these are ones

that are good looking) are extremely indecent, meaning that they will flirt their ways into

the lives of guys, have them hoping that shes really interested in him. But only to turn him

down when proposed to. That is, these girls are similar to the guys having more than their

share of GFs!!! For them more the number of guys running behind them, more the bhaav they get

from their friends. In short they are out to have fun (at your expense), no commitments for

them.

I got the worst kind, the one that acts decent, and mind you this one was a very good

actor....
I have to mention here that:
I]i was extremely stupid to get involved with this girl in the first place
II]i ignored all the warning signs, ie was blinded by the affection i had for her
III]few ex-friends of mine knew her true nature, yet encouraged me to pursue her (bloody

retards, and yes i am no longer friends them)
IV]i am in a hostel, in a place far away from civilization, so had very few options anyway


But when i finally realized the truth, i initially felt pain, followed by anger. I have not

yet decided to whether to remain a hopeless romantic, or become a flirty casanova.... truth

be told i realized that i have no time for girls, cant let my studies/career suffer.

My only consolation is that i am a bit wiser now... and so i decided to share it here, so

that others dont make the same mistake i made....

Signs she maybe a flirt:
1>will make eye contact too often, decent girls mind their own business
2>will seem overfriendly, always display a huge smile
3>will always be on the phone, clue is that she may recharge too often, or have some

unlimited plan active
4>her productivity will be very less, often she maybe disinterested in what shes doing,

whether it be academics or any other field
5>there will be very few signs of true friendship (dont mistake her coming on to you as

friendship)
6>you often hear she is associated with other guys
7>will gladly accept all the money you spend on her. though may offer to pay, if she knows

you are not very into her/too good for her
8>will not tell you too much about herself, eg, her past, etc (this point is important)
9>will have serious issues with other girls, authority, etc
10>lies will be told constantly, be smart to spot them early

thats all i can think of...

please keep your comments flowing...


PS:-i have already made a big fool of myself, hence the assumed username

[red_devil]

[phreak0ut]

Too bad. Keep your eyes peeled for other posers.

[Chirag]

12 or 13?

[red_devil]

btw, who is this guy ?? i really wanna know...

[mods can find out...can't they ? ]

[Kl@w-24]

Emosanal atyachaar ho gaya!!!

[cyborg47]

I was almost through this kind of situation...but never took these kinda things seriously...

[Faun]

Say GTFO to that gurl...lol. Dig as many chicks as you can but do not involve you heart because most of them are biatches. Study...eat...screw and sleep.

PS: I have a feeling that OP wrote from some portable device, iphone

[rhitwick]

The kind of problem description u mentioned is out there for ages, centuries, decades watever...

We all know it, but we become blind and at that moment just believe in HER and nothing else....and then this kinda things happen...

But, ur starting of the story is a bit confusing...
First I thought the MODs have done something to you
Then I thought the "thread" is monitored by girls and u came to know it...
Then I thought some member of the thread has done something bad to you...

and then I got the whole picture...

Watever, best of luck for future.

//and just not to be pwned and loled u created a nw id, MODs may hear it...beware

[adi007]

Excellent points.. will keep that in mind ..

Originally Posted by Chirag

12 or 13?

Surely not ..
By his writing skills and the experience he has gained i think he is 18+

[freshseasons]

Originally Posted by n6300

btw, who is this guy ?? i really wanna know...

[mods can find out...can't they ? ]

It must be Raaabo

[adi007]

Originally Posted by n6300

btw, who is this guy ?? i really wanna know...

[mods can find out...can't they ? ]

come on .. he has surely used proxy to hide his trace

[ionicsachin]

Its definitely Raaabo

[gxsaurav]

I have to mention here that:
I]i was extremely stupid to get involved with this girl in the first place
II]i ignored all the warning signs, ie was blinded by the affection i had for her
III]few ex-friends of mine knew her true nature, yet encouraged me to pursue her (bloody

retards, and yes i am no longer friends them)
IV]i am in a hostel, in a place far away from civilization, so had very few options anyway


But when i finally realized the truth, i initially felt pain, followed by anger. I have not

yet decided to whether to remain a hopeless romantic, or become a flirty casanova.... truth

be told i realized that i have no time for girls, cant let my studies/career suffer.

My only consolation is that i am a bit wiser now... and so i decided to share it here, so

that others dont make the same mistake i made....

Signs she maybe a flirt:
1>will make eye contact too often, decent girls mind their own business
2>will seem overfriendly, always display a huge smile
3>will always be on the phone, clue is that she may recharge too often, or have some

unlimited plan active
4>her productivity will be very less, often she maybe disinterested in what shes doing,

whether it be academics or any other field
5>there will be very few signs of true friendship (dont mistake her coming on to you as

friendship)
6>you often hear she is associated with other guys
7>will gladly accept all the money you spend on her. though may offer to pay, if she knows

you are not very into her/too good for her
8>will not tell you too much about herself, eg, her past, etc (this point is important)
9>will have serious issues with other girls, authority, etc
10>lies will be told constantly, be smart to spot them early

1) no girl, no matter how she is...wants to be called a slut so just cos she is going with different guys doesn't mean she is one. If we guys like it to go with various girls, why can't they....

2) If u do find a girl who is like this, then do as I do...."install vista at 3 am in night" & leave her.

[victor_rambo]

Originally Posted by ionicsachin

Its definitely Raaabo

Raaabo is married

Well...I know who the guy is

[ionicsachin]

Originally Posted by gxsaurav

If u do find a girl who is like this, then do as I do...."install vista at 3 am in night" & leave her.

And if you are still broken down, install Vista on a PIV

[a_k_s_h_a_y]

Originally Posted by gxsaurav

2) If u do find a girl who is like this, then do as I do...."install vista at 3 am in night" & leave her.

Well spoken.

[eggman]

Originally Posted by victor_rambo

Raaabo is married

Well...I know who the guy is

Is it............
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YOU???

[a_k_s_h_a_y]

Its confused. Before he edits all posts.. See the writing STYLE. of his posts around and in The Girl Friend thread.

No big deal.

Originally Posted by confused

i am telling you the truth... you are probably one of the happiest guys on the earth, dont ruin it!!!
1>DECENT GIRLS dont exist
2>if a girl appears decent, its just bait to attract the prey (men)
3>the second she gets the chance, she will (try to) become ur master

Notice the THREE Exclamation marks !!! in the Above quote, and then in this thread title and also used once in the writing.

Then also The style of numbering 1> , 2>

This though is my speculation........
Lets Game to find out this guy out..

[victor_rambo]

^ We know that you are Sherlock Holmes of our forum.
But what if some one is copying his style???
FYI, I had just met Confused today at Dadar, and looking at the post time, I can be sure its not him!

For God's sake, don't invade on someone's privacy.

[a_k_s_h_a_y]

Also do check out this posts
Many Similarities between his posts, and this bewarned

http://www.thinkdigit.com/forum/sear...archid=2827111

[R2K]

leave the girls aside and concentrate on ur work dude.........chicks r just a waste of time.....

most of the guys just go behind the girls because they gets inspiration from those chocolate heros from movies..........


and for all those dickheads who r behind their GF all day long.............go get a life!!

[victor_rambo]

Originally Posted by a_k_s_h_a_y

Also do check out this posts
Many Similarities between his posts, and this bewarned

http://www.thinkdigit.com/forum/sear...archid=2827111

What is so cryptic about Confused's post that no one else can copy his style???

Tomorrow, if I want to make you a suspect, I can well copy your style? Yes or no?

[a_k_s_h_a_y]

Originally Posted by victor_rambo

^ We know that you are Sherlock Holmes of our forum.
But what if some one is copying his style???
FYI, I had just met Confused today at Dadar, and looking at the post time, I can be sure its not him!

For God's sake, don't invade on someone's privacy.

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Originally Posted by victor_rambo

Well...I know who the guy is

Trying to protect your new found friend one ???

First when you said you know this guy, it means you knew him....( knew that confused it was).
Now you come out in open that you know CONFUSED.

And Mumbai ????
Such girls are more likely to be in Mumbai/Del/Kol/Bang... !!! +1 Thanks for the point.

[blondie]

wwtf another e_m_o thread, pleasse!

and by lukin at how victor is defending i think both planned tis thread beforehand..

[victor_rambo]

Yes, I do know Confused. We have met in the forum meet. FYI, the following people know each other:
1. victor_rambo
2. Cool G5
3. Vishal Gupta(not the askvg.com one)
4. Confused
5. tech$oft
6. rhitwick

Is there anything more you want to accuse or allege!!!

You can diggup the old thread about this meet.

Originally Posted by blondie

wwtf another e_m_o thread, pleasse!

and by lukin at how victor is defending i think both planned tis thread beforehand..

Looks like some serious over-dose of hindi reality TV shows.

Someone is trying to protect his identity and also trying to create a suspicion about other member...and you are trying to invade the privacy, and in short "tamasha dekh rahe ho"!

[a_k_s_h_a_y]

am bored already, ok dude, i don't have all time to play around.
i had my dose of fun. got lots of work... c ya later.

but good that bewarned has his experience and feeling a bit good.
also for providing the entertainment.

sorry for your heart break though, seriously, you can do better.

[mrintech]

Originally Posted by freshseasons

It must be Raaabo

[eggman]

Good work a_k_s_h_a_y. I to feel its confused!!

[Faun]

There are two confused in this forum