GUYS I LOVE THIS GIRL but how should i propose her

[::cyborg::]

hi guys this is cyborg again

i finally fell in love (oh my god next month i am going to have my exams.) dont say its Infatuation i am 25

i only get out only for one look of her i get ready and roam for about half hour in such a hot weather for tuesday thursday because she comes around 3 pm or so

i wait wait and wait but when she comes i get crazy my memory gets flashed and iam not able to say anything to her except looking at her like a stupid i dont know her name and number but still ................... :??

confidence level = 0.0%

oh my god iam dead :(

can u guys help :?:(:((

[narangz]

Just follow your signature :)

":mrgreen:- KEEP SMILING"

[::cyborg::]

Just follow your signature :)

":mrgreen:- KEEP SMILING"

DUDE i cant even smile yar mein kya karu mein to gaya:?

[narangz]

Khalsa ji tusi kite ni gaye. Jago. Himmat karo. Khush raho.

[T159]

first try to approach her and make friendship, love build up on patience and trust.

If u propose her now, 99% chances are that she will say "no". Take time to tell what you are and how much u care.

Remember if u can't do all the above things then its merely infatuation (a heart is never old for infatuation).

And keep in mind that end can be very unexpected. So don't think that you are the only lover. You can be lucky too :D

[MetalheadGautham]

take it slowly. first a hi, wassup, then when you both start meeting each other often, you might get to know each other better. All this time, try not to goof up. Then find out if dhe is not already with someone else. IF she is, you atleast gained a friend, don't be disappointed. IF she is not, wait till the right moment and go for it.

[madjeri]

first make contact....
1.see if shes really the type u looking
2.see id shes got everything tht u want in a girl
3.decide if lover or marriage material
4.Important....see if shes interested in u...
5.More Important...check if its genuine..u check it using a lot of things..depends on girl...sometimes..u just know...

6.Check if shes in a mood fro reln..any complications like BF or family issues....
7.Atleast wait for 1 month..let ur friendship grow...if its BELIeVE ME..BOTH OF U WILL KNOW FROM START..i cant explain how....but dont u dare open ur mouth... :)

8.THEN SEE..if all u said in ur original post exist..see the feelings...is it just getting laid...or the real thing.....

p.s.check wat u like in her most..u will get it fast.... ;)

9.After that do whatever u want...

10. if she accepts..BINGO......if not DONT EVEN THINK ABT SULKING...next one will come a faaaaar better one...

and please dont rush it...UNLESS u are 100% DAMN SURE....ok

hope helped...

[crystal_pup]

Be a man...Approach her...Tell her that u been seeing her from many days n wud like to know her...If she is interested then well n good...Else give her some time...
She will definitely think of u...Cheers!

[reddragon]

look I will guide you on this time to time . OK ...

first lets make some assumtions:and give me some feedbacks .


1).you have to get her . right ? life or death situation ?
so remember It is a matter of life and death, a road either
to safety or to ruin. Hence it is a subject of inquiry
which can on no account be neglected.

2).for you this is an war right ? you have to win this . you have 1 life . so this is an WAR for you .
so remember any war ( mental/phyical anyyy )is governed by five constant
factors, to be taken into account in one's deliberations,
when seeking to determine the conditions obtaining in the field.
these are :
(1) The Moral Law; ( remember everything is OK in love & war )
(2) Heaven;
(3) Earth;
(4) The Commander; ( you )
(5) Method and discipline. ( this will become the most important factor )


I will continue more later . now busy .

first let me know you have the object itself ( the girl ) or you have the enemy ( another boy ) also . remember the strategy for winning is you have to be superior than you opponent in atleast 2-3 areas .

[Roadripper]

As far as i ma dating experiences never go and propose on shot at the first site... u get a big" nO" or "excuse me"or "**** off" or "Buzz of "..Isliye pehle smile maar hasi tho fasi.. baad main jaake kuch compliement kar uske baare main .. kaunsa coll pura pucha .. Care to hav a cofeee wit me or Kuch conversation start kar.. agar cofeee ke le liye razi hui tho just be her best fren and help her n wateve way u can .. uska background pura jaanle kaise type ki ladki hai .. kitne bfs the ?? ya hai ???;) pura detail main jaan le ... on tehlong run eihter she ll propose ya u do ... accept karegi ...this is wat i feeel...:D

[Chirag]

Just go and talk.. if not get her id and chat online. Thats what we are good at. :D. Anyways try to talk..

[::cyborg::]

Oh my god thank you brothers for your support

but all of you say the same thing approach her that's impossible you guys know she lives in my colony agar gar mein bta dia to hum sikh logo mein bat bat par talwar gun nikal jati hai
it would be like ruining my family repu

and jaha tak dekne ka sawal ata hai sometime she does and sometimes she does not

iam always revolving around her house and her when she comer back from class

guys iam pissed off :?

[mehulved]

Wow! I didn't know we had so many love guru's on the forum.

[naveen_reloaded]

At this stage dont take anything to your heart...just collect info of her in a decent way...i mean dont go around asking about her to everyone...

Actually i wrote a big reply thru operamini , but unfortuantely my app crashed...sorry will do it in coming posts...

[iMav]

if she is from ur colony get some friend to find some friend of her's and then hang out tell ur friend to tell her friend to call her get acquainted, colony hai kahin na kahin se dosty yaari nikal aayegi

[::cyborg::]

I MAV
huh thats gud thanks man love u

so i need a detective friend for surveillance

[utsav]

Is it a tech forum guys ??? :shock: i think i am at a love forum ooops.


EDIT: ohh sorry :D:D its digit forum ,saw the url in the address bar :D

[Gigacore]

just imagine that u never met her in ur life time & concentrate on ur studies.. not easy, though...

[Abhishek Dwivedi]

wow...gr8 tips giga...vry hlpful..awsum as always... :D...

n guys....trust me...giga is vry right...love is cool but it sucks :))

[sourav123]

Yes. To quote again: there are only 10 kinds of people in this world. Those who are techie and those who have a lover. :)

[Lucky_star]

You are the Sony Ericsson Guru, right? So gift her a new SE cell and teach her the complete ways to flash the firmware, hacking it, installing new themes, new games etc. etc. And show her your SE thread. She will fall for you. :o :o

[hullap]

You are the Sony Ericcson Guru, right? So gift her a new SE cell and teach her the complete ways to flash the firmware, hacking it, installing new themes, new games etc. etc. And show her your SE thread. She will fall for you. :o :oand if she's a macgirl :lol:

[Lucky_star]

^^then cyborg will have a burnt pocket in a few months :o

[hullap]

ROFL :D :lol:

[::cyborg::]

GUYS whenever she is returning from class she always has a nokia ear phone plugged into her ear

true iam sony ericsson guru love sony ericsson

i hate nokia but i love the girl

anyway waiting for friday as her classes are at MWF

LUCKY STAr lol :-) she will think iam big vela insan

[confused]

LOL. read my sig.

@eggman - ur 100% right. such threads do exist.

[blueshift]

I think you are the 3rd one to come up with such thread. ;-)

[T159]

yeah love sucks if its not mutual,

Aur agar tumhare parivar wale aggressive(talwar katar par aa jaate hai) hai toh acha hoga ki tum shaant raho. Kahi rai ka pahad na ho jaaye.

Here the girl plight matters most, religion, thoughts, open mindedness and how much she want to socialize.

[madjeri]

HEHEHE.....

dude..u live in a sweet place..

[din]

LOL, just saw something and thought of you.

Now here is a link (live chat - expires today ;) so make it fast)

No, not a sapm / ad

Unlucky in love? Talk to our Love Guru! (http://www.rediff.com/getahead/loveguru.html)

[nitish_mythology]

Umm.. dont u both have a common friend who can introduce u to her????????
Mayb someone can start a new thread n mods thn make it a sticky "Post All your love related queries here..." :) lolz

[Cool G5]

^A good idea "Love Sticky" :))

@cyborg - First of all I would advice you to just watch her & get to know where she goes.Any common friends?

Also your exams are near, so better get back to studies, you can always follow her after exams.

And always remember

"We think all day, all night about the girl we like, but girls don't. "

Sad but true. :(
We run behind them & get ruined in our career, but these girls are pretty smart, they won't let their career get ruined & still there is a possibility of her leving the guy who loves her.

[T159]

"We think all day, all night about the girl we like, but girls don't. "

Sad but true. :(

sad but incorrect.

gals and boys both are same in this matter.

[::cyborg::]

@ COOL G5

very true but i always think that she might be thinking of me when i see her on the way atleast :-(

i sometimes get very angry when she does not see me when i am co nstantly looking at her from just 1 metre away

well and studies yes i do study but at 3 pm at MWF
i forget everything and grab my bìke and straight away go to her centre

[Cool G5]

What is MWF :confused:

You have mentioned it many times in your posts.

[nitish_mythology]

"We think all day, all night about the girl we like, but girls don't. "

Girls think twice as much as we do!!! If a girl is in love, she wll thnk about tht guy 24*7.

[::cyborg::]

@ COOL G5
MWF

Monday wednesday friday

[Roadripper]

Let ur exms get over man .. baad main kuch kar...:D;)

[T159]

^^lool
SM

@Roadripper

is that Alfa Romeo Stallion in ur avatar

[The_Devil_Himself]

::cyborg:: :Only if all the others knew whats its like being in your shoes(its crazyness) and only if all what they suggested were that easy to do\happen.

[eggman]

LOL. read my sig.

@eggman - ur 100% right. such threads do exist.

Yeah. They are quite necessary na.... :) :))

[jxcess2]

hi guys this is cyborg again

i finally fell in love (oh my god next month i am going to have my exams.) dont say its Infatuation i am 25

i only get out only for one look of her i get ready and roam for about half hour in such a hot weather for tuesday thursday because she comes around 3 pm or so

i wait wait and wait but when she comes i get crazy my memory gets flashed and iam not able to say anything to her except looking at her like a stupid i dont know her name and number but still ................... :??

confidence level = 0.0%

oh my god iam dead :(

can u guys help :?:(:((

Why don't u post a picture of this girl? We'll then decide.

[vivekrules]

dude... if she meets u .. anytime then ek smile de usko...then dekh.. kya wo bhi smile dete hai ki nahi... if she smiles at u.. then jackpot lag gaya.... after that go ahead and say hi how u doing ?...
try this trick :)... .. hope its work... !
nd uske bare me .. zyada mat soch..... right now just concentrate on ur studies.. because exam are ahead !.... all the best ! 4 both ladki nd exam :)..

[arunks]

oh bai kya topic hai..
gud yaaaaara..
sanu das de bai ki progress hoyi teri love life vich..

and koi saadi bhi help kar dewe.....main bhi kuch start karna chahunda hai girl naal..:) :D

[::cyborg::]

yar maine use sapno mein dekha :-) aj ah wah sapne mein bi wah kya lag rai ti

[Pat]

Sorry, cant help posting this but are you seriously 25 ?

[praka123]

^25 but with the lover heart of a 17? :D

[Cool G5]

@Cyborg - Asked my sis about this yesterday.
She said "You should approach her & speak her about the class she visits. Tell her that you are thinking of joining it. Ask her for details"

After such conversation, you can easily move ahead and befriend her. :D

[narangz]

^^ LOL! You have got a helpful sis :D

[T159]

Sorry, cant help posting this but are you seriously 25 ?
jab pehli baar luv ka keeda lagta hai toh aisa kisi ke bhi saath ho sakta hai.

another reason could be that OP is feeling lonliness and less attention from fellows and family member, thats why he's craving for some other being for care and luv and then opposite attracts. Maybe he's been too busy with spare time all day

[::cyborg::]

@cool g5

Oh my god thanks for this help you really doing hard work for me thanks again brother

i think now its time to do something

i will try to do what sis told

[confused]

Yeah. They are quite necessary na.... :) :)):D

[Roadripper]

^^lool
SM

@Roadripper

is that Alfa Romeo Stallion in ur avatar

yeah buddy ... u guessed it rit..;)

@cool g5

Oh my god thanks for this help you really doing hard work for me thanks again brother

i think now its time to do something

i will try to do what sis told


Nice suggestion from ur sis...go wit tht...;)

[x3060]

take care of your studies first mate . . then you can think of other things . first let your exams get completed in a good way . focus on your career , girls and others can follow later . . .

[vivekrules]

ey havent u seen REhNA HAI TERE DIL MEIN ?????

[amd64_man2005]

get her name,school,watevr and search for her in orkut..if shes there..job 75% done..

[Sunny1211993]

Play Sims 2,You will get some idea:D

[Cool G5]

@cool g5

Oh my god thanks for this help you really doing hard work for me thanks again brother

i think now its time to do something

i will try to do what sis told

No Thanks please.
Best of luck.

[The_Devil_Himself]

screw stdies man,you have been studying for ages now.go follow your heart.

[phreak0ut]

Stop being a stalker!

[praka123]

In kaliyug ,love is called lust :rolleyes: ,make sure anyway :p

[T159]

^^yeah atleast it originates from lust, later may be sane ones do get in love (love is not a bonding its the freedom of two persons such that they think good abt each others without even meeting(or loling) and feeling jealous).

Lol but thats now too hypothetical, true luv is found in scriptures and books which are rarely available now